There is a girl I am completely in love with, and she loves me, but I don't think she really believes me when I tell her I love her as much as I do. She feels like I am saying that now, but if we were to be together, then it would go away after a short peroid of time. How do I prove to her that I really do love her?
2007-02-01 02:56:01 · 20 answers · asked by adamcookie28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Treat her like a princess...
2. Either take her out to dinner or cook her meal.
3. Instead of dinner by candlelight, serve her breakfast by candlelight.
4. When you tell her you love her, say it with enthusiasm, and from your heart.
5. Make a list of the 10 reasons why you fell in love with her.
6. Always get her a card, better yet, make her one yourself.
7. Take her to church and say a special prayer for your relationship. This idea will have a huge impact.
8. Take her on a picnic.
9. Make her feel that she is your top priority.
10. Go for a walk and hold hands.
11. Read her poetry.
12. Sing her a love song.
13. Watch romantic movies with her
14. Recreate your first date.
15. Grab her and kiss her like you can't wait.
16. Carve her initials and yours in a tree.
2007-02-01 03:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Shai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's Not in any one thing you can say or do. You show her by the little things you do each and every day. It's in the little hug you give her as you walk by, or the sly little wink. The pat on the hand or the knee. Open doors for her, hold her chair. It's asking her if she needs anything while you are out, and not having a problem stopping to pick up a box of Tampax. It's in taking her to that chick flick she wants to see, or going to a particular concert she likes. Proving your love is an ongoing process.
2007-02-01 03:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an old expression "Don't tell me .... show me!" If you've been there to LISTEN to your girlfriend and to be SUPPORTIVE when she needs you to be as well as doing little unexpected things for her just because you want to not because you have to .... should show her that you love her.
SHARE things about yourself with her and let her hear your innermost FEELINGS and THOUGHTS and DREAMS .... this brings two people closer as well.
I don't believe in "soul mates" ... I think "life mates" is much more important. COMMUNICATION, giving of your TIME, HELPFULNESS and UNDERSTANDING are far more important that going out and buying expensive gifts.
Don't forget that lasting relationships ... haven't necessarily been easy ones. It's hard work to create a lasting relationship and it also means you'll both have to COMPROMISE. Good luck with your girlfriend .... I just hope she's as thoughtful about your relationship as you are since you're the one looking for answers.
Love changes over the years. In the beginning of a relationship there is infatuation and passion ... but YEARS later it turns into RESPECT and love. Just don't ever lose your self-respect by trying to only please her. It has to be a mutual "GIVE AND TAKE" situation to be a good relationship. Good for you my friend ... keep working at it and I wish you success, peace and love!
2007-02-01 03:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a gentleman. Yes, I know this is corny and old fashioned but it works and has endured. Open doors for her, get out of the car and go around and open hers, When you share something always make sure she is first, kiss her cheek, hold her hand, put your arm around her when your walking, take her to the beach for a romantic walk without expecting something in return. Be with her instead of your friends when she needs you. Send her flowers (doesn't have to be roses, daiseys are beautiful and cheap. Stroke her hair, look at her when she speaks, don't interupt her when she speaks. You get the idea.
2007-02-01 03:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ole Charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you said that you guys live in to different countries? So send her a cute letter telling her how you feel,cause you seem scared to tell her face to face. but start of slow,because you don't want it to feel like your pressuring her. So send her cute letters,and just talk like your really close friends,and then start talking about relationships and then im sure ever thing will work its self out(: Hope this helps
2016-05-24 01:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her with love in the small things. Open doors for her, drop her the occasional cute note (they love that), listen to what she has to say and take it seriously, respect her friends and her family, lend her your jacket...be kind and respectful to her persistently, without making a big deal of it, and it will be obvious over time that you're serious.
2007-02-01 03:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by JDB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a very good question. What I would do is personally give her a red rose and maybe flirt with her a bit. The last guy that I dated did that and of course I thought that it's was cute so I started going out with him!!
2007-02-01 03:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just insecure. I feel saying I love you in person and meaning it has more power than through any other way.
2007-02-01 02:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If, what you mean by "but if we were to be together" means you want her to sleep with you, you can prove you love her by being with her without pressuring her to have sex!
2007-02-01 03:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by Roxanne G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't say you love her by just telling " i love you". Show it, if her friends around you should show that you love her,just a simple gestures...or be there when she needs you..gives some gift and go on a dates with her...
2007-02-01 03:03:03 · answer #10 · answered by zhynee l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋