I'm going out with a guy but I don't really know if I want to go out with him. because I like another guy and my curent BF knows that I like him so if I dump him for this guy I dunno what will happen!!! so what do you guys think that i should do?
2007-02-01 02:53:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up with the guy you don't really like... NOT because you're going to immediately make the moves on some other guy but because it's not fair to lead your current boyfriend on and use him when you don't care for him.
You should never "go steady" with a guy unless you're sure you have feelings for him and that it might get more serious. With the new guy, make it clear you're not making any sort of commitment and that he can see other girls just like you can see other guys until you are sure you want to be more serious.
Sounds to me like the guy you're currently seeing should have been left on that level. You're only "going out" with him because there was nobody else to go out with at the time and, now that there seems another option, you're looking around. God forbid that I run into women like you. You sound pretty selfish. Let the guy go and maybe he'll find someone nicer.
2007-02-01 02:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 20:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by meikle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've already made up your mind that you aren't really into your current boyfriend. Stop seeing him. Break it off as soon as possible. Don't give him false hope - be clear about your feelings towards him. Otherwise, you risk making the jilt harder to bear as you delay the break-up. And from what you've said, the break-up will happen sooner or later... just make it sooner.
Whether or not you choose to make a move on the other guy or let him know you're interested is irrelevant to your current relationship.
2007-02-01 03:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by freckleface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask youself why you keep going out with that person. What purpose does this person served? Are you being an honorable person or just using someone and treading on dangerous territory. You will get hurt and you wil hurt someone in this scenario. Learn to tell the truth and to thy self be true. Tell that other person that you like them and take the risk of rejection. You might get a surprise for doing a good deed.
2007-02-01 02:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sports Maven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be with someone you arn't all that interested in, tell him the truth and quit wasting both of ya'lls time. Then if you like the other guy just get to know him don't just go straight to dating you might find out the guy your interested in isn't really dating material either.
Good Luck
2007-02-01 02:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by neicee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really aren't being fair to the guy you're currently dating if you're just leading him on. Just end the relationship, regardless of whether you think anything will happen with the other guy. Do the right thing. The right guy for you will likely come along eventually.
2007-02-01 03:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by Scottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a long talk with your current BF. Maybe break up, then give yourself time to think BEFORE you jump into another guys arms.
2007-02-01 02:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump both of them how's that for being blunt.
It's best not to just be with someone and then dump them for someone else without taking a week or two to start seeing someone else.
2007-02-01 02:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care what other people think! I did this for sooooo long. Then one day someone told me that nothing will change unless I make it change. Then I did. You will only be happy if you make yourself happy. If you want to be with this other guy then go for it. And if you don't want to be with this guy that you are with then you should totally end it. It is not fair to him to string him along. My philosophy on dating is that as soon as I have lost the want to be with someone I let them know asap! That is what I would want them to do. I don't want someone to be with me if they wanna be with someone else.... would you. Make yourself happy.... but still regard other peoples feelings... good luck!
2007-02-01 02:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by nichole_lalonde 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the boyfriend. n
2007-02-01 03:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋