My BF that called me last week, called me on Tues. & said that he was too tired to make it home & asked if he could crash on my couch. I let him come in and he slept on the couch. It was only 8:45, do you think this was a ploy just to see how I would handle the situation? Anyway, he woke up with an upset stomach the next morning so I left for work & left him there. I had to leave him the key because that's the only way my door can be locked. I waited later that night 2 c if he'd offer to bring the key back & he didn't. So I called him & asked him to bring the key back, when he did I told him that if he doesn't want me he needs to let me go, because I can't handle just being his friend. I told him that I needed more time. He said he understood but he always saids that. When he left I told him to take care & to leave me be 4 a while. The thing is that I know he'll b back, because he never takes me seriously. I'm trying to let go but how do I when he won't let me?
2007-02-01 02:15:51 · 14 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he will take you seriously when you act seriously.
let me tell you something out of experience, you lose your credibility the first time you say you want to do something and then you don't, just like kids, they test your limitations and act with you according to them.
obviously you have lost your credibility long time ago and that's why he does not take you seriously.
stand up for your words from now on and everybody how is anybody will have to take you seriously starting from your currant boyfriend.
good luck with that...
tell me how it turns out? :-)
2007-02-01 02:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 04:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to draw a clear line with him if you're serious about leaving him. Letting him sleep on your couch, and leaving the key with him are bad ideas. Talk to him again, and this time, stand firm. Tell him that it's over, and don't answer his calls. He may really believe that you're not serious about calling it quits.
2007-02-01 02:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH! thats a tough situation. You may have to break off the friendship if you think it will disrupt any chance you have at seeing someone else....I know that would suck to lose a good friend like he is to you but sometimes we hafta do what is right even if it hurts. Good luck hun.
2007-02-01 02:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by lisaj284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't take you seriously because you let him crash over at your place and lend him your key. You're words don't speak as loudly as your actions. Next time, just tell him 'no.'
2007-02-01 02:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to him. do not answer his calls, do not call him, and do not answer the door and let him crash on the couch!!! you are letting him hold on. once you start to do that, he will get the point and leave you alone.
2007-02-01 02:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by piopo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't trying by letting him in the house.. if you can't handle things with him right now, then say NO, or don't pick up the phone. do what is right for you.. be strong.
good luck!
2007-02-01 02:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by a dork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life, not his. If your not married to him then you have every right to walk away. If you hang on the excuse that "He wont let you" the you need therapy in a BIG way.
2007-02-01 02:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by ZORG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, it only takes 2 to make things happen, so stop contacting him, stop answering his calls, stop open the door for him. clean cut. stop hurting yourself. take a logical stand rather than emotional. you're not being mean. you're protecting youself.
2007-02-01 02:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by Sam T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop answering his call, quit letting him in your place and tell him that its really over and that you dont want him around...you may have to be harsh but it all depends on you....i mean it is your life and if you dont want him in it...then you must let him know...and if you got to be mean then oh well, obviously being nice is not working....good luck!!
2007-02-01 02:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋