I argued with my girlfriend this morning and made her upset and cried. i even told her she can call me if she wants and if she doesn't that is fine. she had classes this morning and she was crying. i feel like a jerk now. i told her i'm sorry for making her upset and i will not do that again. what can i do to prove to her that i'm really sorry. Can anyone give me and idea, should i buy flowers, cards chocolate any ideas
Please i need help, i really love her
2007-02-01 02:09:37 · 13 answers · asked by killuminati 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Couples argue, it's inevitable. Yeah you made her cry but it will probably happen again no matter how hard you try to avoid it. As long as you whole-heartedly apologized and explained why you said what you said, you're on the right track. She may need time to deal so don't push. Just make sure she knows you are still there for her and will be no matter what. Her favorite flowers, NOT just generic roses, may help too.
2007-02-01 02:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sydney 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all you got to do is spend more time with her and stop putting her on the back burner. show her that it is about her and not who ever yall was aruging about. i have a boyfriend of 2 years and he does me the same way that you are doing her but he is worst. see he would tel me that he is sorry and that he didnt mean to do it and that he loves me. but what i dont understand is why do yall do the things yall do and dont expect to get the results you get? us females are very sensitive and you have to watch what you say. we try not to let everything get to us but if it hurts that bad we will cry our hearts out and ask ourselves why do i put up with him. so get your act together,, and be a man. if you feel that you are wrong in the arugement then your wrong its done; same for her if you know she is wrong then let her do the talking as long as you know who is right, and vice verser. and then later before going to bed or departing from each other talk to her and explain, let her know that you dont want to argue you just want to talk, and if she starts then leave it alone, but make sure that you at least talk about it when everything is cool. so when she comes from class take her and tell her how much you love her and that you are sorry. make sure that it is coming from the heart. try i know it would work because my man is still learning from his mistakes. please you dont want to lose the one you love because there will never be another girl like the one you have.
2007-02-01 02:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by dikdabutty56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry to much about it. Girls cry all the time. What did she do to make you upset? Flirt with another guy? Cheat on you? Get drunk and lap dance? Had sex with another girl? Got a tatoo above her butt? There are many more frustations for you to come and she will cry many more times. Dont sweat it.
2007-02-01 02:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When my grandpa said he was sorry to my nanna she always said Dont tell me, show me. So show her in the most creative way that you love her and your sorry. Give her chocolate, talk to her tell her how sorry you are. Best of luck.
2007-02-01 02:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by vw chick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can buy her flowers/a rose with another I'm so sorry.....ask her if she can forgive you? Try to give her a hug to help make her feel better..........not a short one either. Whatever, you do be PATIENT with her. I hope this helps??????????
2007-02-01 02:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by ********* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if possible when she comes out of class..... be standing by her car with flowers and a little something that you know she loves.... her favorite candy....a cd you made for her... something sweet... and just tell her how much you really love her.... good luck.
2007-02-01 02:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a date. You make her really happy. Have a dinner and you got her a surprise. I used to sang a song when my girlfriend got mad.
2007-02-01 02:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise her with flowers and a card.
2007-02-01 02:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by steffo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her what was going on in your head when you made her cry. Tell her that you will try to control your feelings. Just hug her. :]
2007-02-01 02:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see her, don't say anything...just kiss her forehead and hold her...
2015-08-06 12:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by amb's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋