my mate keeps complaining about the fact that her boyfriend sucks whenever he kisses her. apparently it's not that pleasant lol. she wants me (!) to tell him to stop it!!! help!!! how can i possibly do this???
2007-02-01 01:28:36 · 23 answers · asked by karen f 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's her responsibility to do that, not yours.
2007-02-01 01:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Jewel 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Uh, that is her responsibility, not yours. Communication is the key to a good relationship. If there is something she is not happy with, then needs to be the one to broach the subject with him. She doesn't have to be mean about it. She could make it fun and sexy and give him a kissing lesson, showing her how she likes to be kissed. He may find it sexy and take the hint. No way should you get in the middle of this one and she has no business asking you to tell him something so personal. How does she think he is going to feel when he finds out that she has been telling her friends how badly he kisses. Its only going to hurt his feelings and make him defensive. SHe needs to find a tactful way of disgussing it with him - there is no need for him to know that anyone else knows. She needs to grow up and take some responsibility for her own relationship. Geez!
2007-02-01 11:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by Marijane K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so funny, sorry just have to laugh. He sounds like a kissing gerami , they say nothing sux like electrolux but he takes the cake. Your friend should talk to him, she could tell him that she had read in one of the mags of a certain way of kissing, then she can explain exactly how she wants to be kissed without hurting his feelings. I suggests she does it all by herself and you should just keep out of it. Should he take offence and break up with his girl that could be the end of your friendship as well. :)))
2007-02-01 01:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell him-he'll think your just being nosy and possibly a bit jealous/catty if you do it! Suggest to her that she asks him to try something different when it comes to kissing,and when he kisses her in a way she likes,praise him loads for it. He'll keep kissing her like that for the ego stroking!
2007-02-01 03:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously not doing it on purpose and will probably be quite embarrassed, this is not your job to do as your not kissing him so tell your friend sorry luv your problem your boyfriend you have to tell him
2007-02-01 01:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and tell him to stop vacuuming his g/f whenever he kisses her or else she will dump him.
2007-02-01 01:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is none of your business and solely theirs. It is her job to tell her boyfriend that she doesn't like the way he kisses.
2007-02-01 02:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is just mad. If she doesn't like how he kisses, she should tell him. Oh, I get it, you are teenagers. yeah, in that case, tell your friend's boyfriend's mates to tell him how your mate would like him to kiss her.
2007-02-01 01:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by Kango Man 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your mate to tell him herself
2007-02-01 02:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's down to her unless she wants you to show him how to kiss
2007-02-02 01:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't tell him, she should after all he is her boyfriend not yours.... Its not your responsibility to tell him its your mates....
2007-02-01 01:36:20 · answer #11 · answered by Carole W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋