My bf talks about what he wants me to get him for his birthday and is forgetting that valentine's day is before his birthday. I dont think he will do anything because he is more focused on his birthday then anything else. I am constantly battling myself, thinking should I stay or should I go. What should I do??
2007-02-01 01:26:41 · 11 answers · asked by Ally R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is hard to actually answer because we werent sereious the time of my birthday and he didnt get me anthing and also for christmas as well
2007-02-01 01:49:23 · update #1
Does he celebrate your birthday? If so, you should get him something. Valentine's day is seperate and if he doesn't get you anything, don't get him anything. All relationships are different and people celecrate different things. If the gift issue is more important to you than he is, break up with him
2007-02-01 01:32:06 · answer #1 · answered by Tanya Pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Valentine's Day is a commercialized holiday. Does your man show you love and affection the other 364 days of the year? Mine does and I don't want anything for Valentine's Day.
2007-02-01 01:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jewel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should remind him to stay focus you know he has a birthday coming up, but Valentine Day is first, what are you going to get me.
2007-02-01 01:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've already made a decision, but can't bring yourself to carry it out.
Look at it this way, we're only on this planet for a brief time; do you want to spend that time miserable or happy? The choice is all up to you.
2007-02-01 01:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definately a self-centered selfish person. I'd drop him like a "hot potatoe" so fast it would make his head spin. Lot's of women get taken advantage of by their guy's and it's time women wake up and realize that guy's in general are just using you for what they can get.
2007-02-01 01:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is pretending so when he does do something it will be a big surprise. Guys think that way, not realizing girls may think that we are stupid. If he is usually good with B-day's Christmas and so on, he will be good for you on V-day.
2007-02-01 01:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he cares about your birthday more than Valentine's too... not all guys are into artificially imposed holidays!
2007-02-01 01:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by In-Sync 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of bf would do that?
buy something first (keep the reciept) wait and see if he gets you anything if he doesn't then take it back
2007-02-01 02:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by UndeadNitemare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend, he is obviously caught up in himself too much.
2007-02-01 01:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has never been good on V day.There is more to a man than that day.Is he good to you in other ways?
2007-02-01 01:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋