One of my friends broke up with his girlfriend 2 weeks ago. She wants to be back with him, but he says he is done with her and doesnt care if she goes out with anyone else. In the past week i have been talking to her a lot. I have known her for about 3 years now and i am falling for her. The only thing is she is so beautiful and has already had a bunch of guys hit on her, but she has turned them all down. I want to let her wait to get over him a little longer. But im afraid if i wait to long i will lose the chance. And how should i go about asking her and her not get mad at me and stop talking to me? What should i do?
2007-02-01 01:24:39 · 4 answers · asked by Oddlove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gradually, show her that u care, A LOT!!
be her friend, her bro, her dad, her lover, all at the same time, listen to her when she speaks, be there when she needs u. and ALWAYS ask about her meaning that send her sms's when she's not around but dont make it so obvious or pushing, just like "checking up on u" or "worried about u bcz of the bad weather" ... etc.
and she will cherish u.
2007-02-01 01:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by Dee . 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its the best if you talk to your friend first before you go cross the line. Doesnt matter if he doesnt care about any guys date her but its the best for you to ask him first to make sure if hes alright with you to ask her out when its right time. Once he said go ahead then you can try get know her more, give her some hints, maybe you should try look the way she treat you. If you could tell that she likes you then go ahead and ask her out. If your friend doesnt comfort with you to ask her out, then don't.
2007-02-01 09:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could try taking her on a date for fun. Check with your buddy on this, of course. You know how people say, "Let's make it a date"? Well, doing something with her just for fun might get her mind off of things and help her to be herself for a while. She might come around to you, realizing that you've been there for her this whole time. Either that or I'm just a romantic. See what happens, I mean, it couldn't hurt. Right? ^_^ Good luck!
2007-02-01 09:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it slowly and see how she is receiving you.At the slightest whoa back off.
2007-02-01 09:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋