Should I get a mail order bride since every single woman on this planet thinks I am ugly?

Question

Reasons why I should get a mail order bride:

In the US, men are supposed to approach women. I can't do that. I am too shy. I am afraid of women. They are so intimidating.

It's not fair that men have to approach girls. Girls should approach men. Women never get rejected and they always get free rides. There is nothing difficult about being a woman. They can get a man just by lifting up their shirt.

I'm afraid of rejection. I take all rejection personally.

A girl I walked up to at a bar told me I was too ugly to talk to her

My lovelife is a failure. I'm 29 years old and I'm still a virgin. I've never had a girlfriend, I've never been on a date, I've never kissed a girl.

My friends brag about the one night stands they have every weekend. They have sex w/ 100's of girls and I can't one. This depresses me

I need a mail order bride so I'll never face rejection, I'll won't humiliate myself, I won't have to commit suicide, and I won't go through life alone

Answer 1

a mail order bride is still human and even if you purchase them they still have feelings and emotions.

women don't get free rides and they suffer their fair share of rejections as well.

your friends are probably exagerating a bit about their conquests; even females will do that when thrown into a competative environment.

As for the ***** at the bar; why would you even consider what she has to say? She probably had more issues than Life magazine. Never value yourself by what others think of you because they aren't the last word in anything much less how you look!

Everyone takes rejection personally; even if they say it doesn't bother them on some level on their conscious or subconscious it was personal to them; no matter how hard they try to hide it.

Suicide is not a solution to your problems; there are millions of avenues to take.

Personally I think some therapy would be in order here; work through the issues; with everything that is available on the market to improve looks, if you really want to persue it; look into them.

Answer 2

Hang in there friend! If your friends are bragging about one night stands then they too have no love life, just sex. Your not missing much. Sex is not the big picture. A trusting, honest, and loving relationship is what I hear you saying. Your lonely, but don't sell yourself short. Looks are not everything!! An if girls are telling you negative things, do not let it hurt your feelings, who are they to say anything? Usually if nasty things come out of a persons mouth then they are nasty people. Understand?

Try to build up your self confidence up, remind yourself of the good things you have to offer a girl. I find personality more sexy than looks. It is not easy these days to find a good partner. But do not give up. Try church if you go, better gals than the snobs at bars! Or may E Harmony, I hear they prescreen you and the girls. So right off the bat you're talking with girls that have the same ideals and morals that you do. So part of the hard work has already been done. Then you just need to remember to be yourself. Some one really special might just like you the way you are. "Good Luck!"

Answer 3

try online personals so you can chat before you meet. That way you'll both feel a little more comfortable once you meet and exchange pics. You are not going to find too many decent women in a bar.

Answer 4

I got no free rides!!! so be nice to Me!