Looks or Personality?

Question

DON'T SAY BOTH!
if u have to choose which would u say.

Answer 1

looks because unless you're lying to yourself, you;ll never even know the personality if the looks are a turn off... chicken before the egg.

Answer 2

I think it has to be looks.

If you are not physically attracted to someone but they have a great personality, you end up as friends rather than partners.

Just too add, even the people who say personality, choose looks 1st. You are considering that the person you want to have a realationship with has to look like a human. If a monkey had a great persoanlity..would you date them?

Now i know that is just a stuipid answer but in real life, people need both, Physical attraction and persoanlity

Answer 3

I do not understand how this question could be serious.
Let's look at both of them.

Looks. You date a person for their looks and they throw you out of their bed 1 minute after sex, or string you along until you have nothing left to give them, and then throw you out.

Personality. You date someone with a personality that compliments your own. You love to talk to each other. You share stories, learning more and more about each other. And before you know it, you can't imagine living your life without that person.
I think i want to date women because their personality complements my own.
If you really, really, really care about their looks, you can always take them to see the plastic surgeon after you get married.

Answer 4

Personality if I had to choose but looks matter a bit in the initial attraction.

Answer 5

always personality: whats the point of spending time with something that looks nice but really drives you up the wall? You want to be able to enjoy your life; doesnt matter how good looking someone is if they dont make you laugh, make you smile,make you happy; whats the point! Might as well not bother.
Looks change always; personality sense of hunmour tends to stay the same when youre 80 odd and you're looking at the wrinkled prune next to you they might as well make you laugh, if they cant do that you're not gonna reach the 80 mark!

Answer 6

Personality lasts a lifetime, looks are only one's outer appearance. I truly believe that a person who has a warm and caring personality possesses a beauty that cannot be outdone by looks alone. Think about the people you hold close to your heart and I'll bet you discover that it is their personalities that create that warmth within. Hotties are nice to look at, however, some of them are difficult to live with every day of your life. Great question! Annie

Answer 7

ok obviously i'd say a bit of both but if i HAD to choose i'd pick personality i think. suppose depends on how good looking the looks were haha ah no i'd pick personality over looks any day and oops i think i have done in the past too ha.

Answer 8

Of course there has to be physical attraction, however we are all going to get wrinkly and old and therefore personality wins everytime. I would much prefer a meeting of minds than a drop dead gorgeous man who had an ugly personality/no brains! It is also possible to fall in love with some one inside out, their personality makes them more attractive!

Answer 9

Yeh. Looks help you from a distance, but personality lasts for the long run. You need to have enough looks to show your own respect for your appearance to get a start, but then your personality is the thing that catches....

Answer 10

Definitely personality. Just because someone is beautiful on the outside doesn't mean they are on the inside. They can be vain and so self obsessed they will not have any time for anyone but themselves. Someone who can laugh and can make you laugh is much more sexy and appealing to me. Life is too short and it's time we all made the effort and had fun.

Answer 11

Looks to get it started then personality all the way