I just watched the Forty Year Old Virgin and I did not believe the part when the girl had no problem with Steve Carell's virginity. I know it's cool when you're younger, but after a certain point, isn't it kind of weird? Wouldn't you feel like there's some kind of crazy pressure if you were his first? So my question requires a brutally honest response. Ladies, if you met a guy in his late twenties, thirties or even older, would you honestly have no problem with him never having had sex?
2007-02-01 00:28:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, let's say it has nothing to do with religious reasons or trying to "save himself" for marriage. He'd like to have sex, but he just hasn't gotten the opportunity yet.
2007-02-01 00:45:00 · update #1
It wouldn't bother me. I think it seems a bit judgemental and close-minded to jump to conclusions about why someone may or may not be a virgin. There could be thousands of reasons. The most common I would expect is for religious reasons, but I imagine some people might have had low self-esteem, body issues, or they may have experienced abuse as a child. There could be so many reasons behind it, and it's such an obvious choice situation. Bc anyone who wants to have sex, can. So, if a guy is older and hasn't had sex, then I would respect that he had made that choice for whatever reason.
2007-02-01 00:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Snow White 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i'm kind of in this same situation. i'm almost 30 and def not a virgin, but i've only been with hookers.....a lot of hookers. So, i really wouldn't know hot to act around a girl that i actually feel something for. on the other hand, i've gotten to experience some freeky sh1t that i wouldn't have with some girlnextdoor bimbo. who wants an avg chick? they dont know what they are doing. go down to the local greyhound bus station and pick yourself out a nice one.
2007-02-01 00:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would depend on the reasons he had never had sex. If it's for religious reasons or because he was "saving himself" for the right woman...I would have no problem at all.
2007-02-01 00:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by Misty 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would actually respect the guy, not many guys are virgins after the age of 18. So I would really respect him, at least he was waiting for someone he loved. It may be ackward, but I would really respect him, and at least I would know more than he would. lol.
2007-02-01 00:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
No. I would want him to try out others first. I wouldn't want him to ever wonder what was out there. Plus, I don't want to have to teach him everyhting. I want a man who will take charge in bed and teach me a few things.
2007-02-01 00:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by browneyedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it depends on why he is still a birgin. if its nothing bad, then why not? being a virgin dosnt mean anything
2007-02-01 00:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by ami 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
honestly i think the guy would be a little creepy really you gotta ask your self why wont other chicks sleep with him? theres gotta be a reason for that
2007-02-01 00:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by jinx 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋