a. move away
b. ignore them
c jus deal with it
d talk to you closest friend about it
e or jus go and be a rebel
2007-02-01 00:27:20 · 10 answers · asked by SEXY mami 16 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
None of the above. You are turning into an adult, show your parents that. They may nag you about stupid thing but try this for a while. Obey them, listen to them, do what they ask you and try to let them get to know you, you are becoming your own person, you have changed from their adorable little child that used to be happy at home with mommy and daddy playing in the back garden. Why don't you let them into your world, go to the movies with your mom, just the two of you, have fun together. When you can really talk to each other things will be better I promise.
2007-02-01 00:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Shrek 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I sympathise with the way you feel. I'm also a parent who's raised 2 kids. Once the relationship between the parent and the teen has gotten to the point where yours apparently is, SOMEbody needs to change the cycle. If your parent is nagging 24/7, they may be going about it all wrong, but they're worried about you, your choices, your future. Your parent is as miserable as you are, believe it or not. MAYbe, just maybe, it would be possible to break the cycle of anger - can you approach the parent when there is time, ask what can be done to make things better for both. Parents have to learn, just like you do, to allow the child to break away and make their own choices. Talk, try being more pleasant, know that no matter how much they yell and nag, no one will ever love you as completely as your mom/dad. You'll find that out when you're a parent. Please don't dismiss this advice as being from an old fogy, someone who just doesn't understand - I do! Good luck.
2007-02-01 08:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by maxamillion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't added an additional choice which should be at the top of the list. Talk to the "******" calmly and coherently to find out what you can do to change things for the better. Of the choices you listed, c is the best and d is the worst but none are very good and will solve nothing. Maybe the problem is one of attitude----yours.
2007-02-01 08:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by cat nurd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a. moving away will just give her more to nag and worry about
b. ignoring them will just make them nag louder
c. just dealing with it wont make it go away, but at least it wouldn't make it worse
d. Talking about it can really help. One should fume over these types of things too long
e. Rebelling, like moving away, would just give them more to nagg about, and you don’t want that.
I discovered, in my teenage years, that you just have to draw the line, but you can't be too hard on your parents, they love you after all and worry about you. You’re just going to have to sit them down and tell them how their nagging upsets you. Then you’re going to have to learn to tell them what they need to know and try not to tell them too much. My boyfriend has this problem and ends up telling his mother everything about what we are going to do and that just ends up giving her a reason to nagg at us to do it her way, and that ends up pissing him off. Well, if he didn’t tell her EVERYTHING then it wouldn't have been so bad. Tell them where your going and when you expect to be back and make sure they have a phone number to contact you with, weather its a friends house or the mall's number where you'll be hanging out. Don’t say things like, "I’m going to go hang with my buds," say it like, "I'm going to go and talk with Chris and Mary and maybe walk around the block" or whatever. Be a little specific and they will be less likely to ask for details. If you have a cell, then next time you go somewhere call them and let them know you got there and repeat what time you expect to be home. When you volunteer information, however stupid it may seem to you, it makes them feel they can trust you and it also protects your safety. Then they are less likely to feel like they have to ask you a bunch of questions. Good Luck!
2007-02-01 08:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Chick in Florida 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
deal with it, try your hardest to understand, talk to your parents, figure out why they are nagging you so bad. IF all else fails complain to your friends, we all went though it, and chances are you'll be a nagging parent at some point in your life! Remember parents love you and want the best for you, it sucks now, but one day you will appreciate being nagged trust me!
2007-02-01 08:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by jaamat6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what they want you to do, surprise them, go on, give it a try, you are young and they are only trying to teach you, get that volunteer spirit flowing, wash the dishes, and the car, mow the lawn, tidy your room, you know, all the things that they have to do, usually
2007-02-01 08:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal baby deal with it.. i got a mother in law who's just about as bad ... she cares about you and the only way she can show it is to nag the s**t out of you
2007-02-01 08:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by ♥lois c♥ ☺♥♥♥☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i'll do neither of them....i'll try to convince them that there's no cause to worry about me and eventually make it dawn on them that what they had done is wrong
2007-02-01 08:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by vinodh S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now i can only do b
2007-02-01 10:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i tell u wat -
tell them ure not gonna invite them for your wedding!
why? tell them bcoz
they didnt bother to invite u for theirs!!!
hehehehe
2007-02-01 08:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋