ok there is this guy thats a couple grades a head of me but i relly like him. weare the same age and he knows i exsit because everyone says im ubsessed with him!!! i relly want him to like me! please help!!!!
2007-02-01 00:17:58 · 8 answers · asked by Kayla S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Iget to read this question a lot and the answer is really quite simple – you can’t make somebody love you. There is nothing you can do or say to make a person who isn’t already smitten suddenly do an about face and fall for you. There is nothing you can change about yourself, no clothing you can buy, no team you can join, no club you can get in to, and no hairstyle you can try that will make a person who isn’t in to you already suddenly notice you and fall in love. Let’s face it, life is not a major motion picture and love does not happen with the flick of a 30 second make-over’s magic brush. In gaining love, things are not as rosy as the Hollywood crowd would have us believe. The cold hard reality is that if somebody is going to like you, and if that like is going to blossom in to love, it is going to happen because of who you are right now, at this moment, without any artificial changes or out-of-character behaviors.
You are you and anybody worthy of your love will want you just the way you are. I know, that sounds like another Hollywood cliché but hey, even the happy ending obsessed Hollywood crowd can get it right every once in awhile!
2007-02-01 03:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by frisky_pink_bunny22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you like him and stop acting like your obsessed with him before he thinks you are a maniac and wants you to stay away from him because he may start to fear you. Also he may even like you because a lot of older guys like younger girls in case you didn't notice.
2007-02-01 00:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question reveals its own answer: you should forget all about this guy or any other guy at school and start paying attention to your schoolwork instead (especially English class).
2007-02-01 00:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u urself say u r OBSESSED with him..it's not love u feel..u dont even know him properly..just be urself..if he's meant to be urs he'll like u that way..
2007-02-01 00:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by helloall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant force someone to like you.()
2007-02-01 00:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just be your self ok
2007-02-01 00:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by kerric t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHOW HIM HOW YOU REALLY ARE. BE YOUR TRUE SELF.
2007-02-01 00:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by pellmell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
2007-02-01 00:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by booge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋