i am dating this man for 8 months now when is the right time to start talking about moving in together and who should be the first to ask the question.
2007-02-01 00:08:43 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when the right time comes there is no need to start talking about it!
2007-02-01 00:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends that how well do know the person and is this the step you want to live with for the rest of life. I think either of you should talk about why do wanna move in is it for the right reasons or just temporary ones.Please ask yourself am I ready to sleep next to himevery night. If your answer are positive for you then tell him how do you feel about you guys moving in and I'm if this will offend you but I think it's too early to really know this guy and some we as men we may feel horny and then we say we want to move in then a couple of days we want to move out but I hope this guy is cool and loves very much coz you're a sweet girl although I haven't seen you and if u want to critisize and liked this answer email me at leystar001@yahoo.com, I'm ready for your next question.
2007-02-01 08:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by Leystar 001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know who should ask first and when either of you should ask then now is not the right time to move in together because by asking the question I don't think you're sufficiently close/confident enough with eachother to move on to this stage
2007-02-01 08:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by bearbrain 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should know wither or not you ⥠this man . before you even think about moving in with him because . what happens in most relationship is that the two people who thinks that their in ⥠so they are gonna move in together . and they do that's when they start to fine out the truth about each other . moving in together is sometimes the cause of why most couples break up . so before you think about moving in together find out more about , him . because sometimes moving in together is what makes most couples stronger and 8 months that's along time . so i think that if your feeling really strong about it you should be the one to mention it . don't just rush right into it , just mention it to your guy. and see what happens .
2007-02-01 08:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by ♣ Mzs I C@ndy ♥ *~♠ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it an'it like your getting married honey.. just talk about it split the rent and things. find out if you can live with this guy all the time and if you want to give up your place or his. i had a girlfiend that brought a condo after being together for years with her b/f and they broke up a few months later and shes gotta pay 2000 a month in mortages and can't get out of it. think about it ... forget about who's first or second.
2007-02-01 08:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by ♥lois c♥ ☺♥♥♥☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to live together? Don't you realize that 90% of these type of relationships end in disaster.
I wouldn't move in, cause soon as you do it, the control freak in both of you is going to come to the surface and it will create problems.
2007-02-01 08:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i spose it all depends on what feels right to you. there is no right time to ask to move in together. and i spose either of you could ask thequestion, just besure that you are prepared for the answer of yes, ill move in with you or no, im not ready or something like that!
good luck
xxx
2007-02-01 08:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by [alagaesia] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u guys luv eachother's company and ready to share ur happiness and sorrow with eachother then u can move right now ... and in that case i don't think thats matter who is going to ask, this u can suggest indirectly or directly ... good luck.
2007-02-01 08:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should ask you if you want to live together. If you bring it up he's going to think your pushy. If you don't think he'll ask then move on because he's never going to be committed.
2007-02-01 08:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The man should bring that up if you do it then it may seem pushy.. You can talk about it to see where he stands about it.
2007-02-01 08:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋