i get really nervous when i want to call the girl that i like..what should i do to outcome this problem?if this goes on,i will not able to call that girl for the rest of my life!what should i do?
2007-02-01 00:07:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its better to do it . you know soon it will be late
2007-02-01 00:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, i realise its a nerve-wrecking thing to do... theres no doubt about it... BUT the only way you are going to overcome your nervousness is to face your "demons" head on...
You are making it harder for yourself by thinking about how nervous you are, and how you cant do it! Of course you can!!!
Its the same as talking to anyone else on the phone... There's nothing different... except that you like her. She cant see how nervous you are on the phone... so just keep talking, or imagine yourself talking to someone else...
But pick up the phone and call her... you'll soon see that theres nothng to be nervous about, and you'll probably want to do it again!!
2007-02-01 08:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anfieldgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In situations like that you just pick that phone up and call her.. Im a girl so I can tell you this, Girls love it when a guy tells them I was nervous to call you because I like you so much.. it just melt us down.. Im sure she wants you to call her. and when you tell her that the rest of the converstation is going to be easy. Just build up the nerve and pick the phone up is going to be fine.. good luck.
2007-02-01 08:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a look at yourself in the mirror, i bet your drop dead gorgouse, i can tell by the way you write lol, if she gave you her number she's obviously interested, so go 4 it call her, dont be afrade, just think of wat to say first, you could start with something like, "hi ......... (watever her name is) how are you, when are you free next i thaught i could take you out for something to eat", little tip, girls love to be romanced, buy her flowers, or if your short on money, buy her a single red rose, that will tug at her heart strings, i know it would do mine plz mail bk lv chavin_it_riz x x x
2007-02-01 08:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by love_me_im_sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider the pros and the cons, either you shed your nervousness or live a life without the girl of your dreams. Motivate yourself to shed your nervousness. Do self brain washing if required.
2007-02-01 08:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can write down what u'd like to say to her on a sheet of paper before you call her... then sit back and take 3 deep breaths. remember she can't see how nervous you are... also consider she maybe as nervous as you are...
2007-02-01 08:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by tammy s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice ,write down things you might say,or questions you might ask,read them loudly and clearly to yourself until you feel comfortable,don't worry girls have the same problem
goodluck
2007-02-01 08:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice talking when you're alone.
Like me, you may find that a lot better than a girl, anyway.
2007-02-01 08:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by martino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did She give you her number or did you get it from a friend...maybe you should have a friend over and he/she could help you build comfidence.I mean come on we don't live forever we gotta get over our fears one time or a nother
email me if you need more help thanks=]
2007-02-01 08:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by ChayBaby TTC#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk to her face to face first so that you get used to her and how she says things this will make you more confident to talk to her face to face!!!
2007-02-01 08:14:15 · answer #10 · answered by rhi!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya just like they said just talk to your self pretend that u are talking to her it just might work
2007-02-01 08:12:22 · answer #11 · answered by the doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋