if a girl really insists that you spend time with them, and you're just getting to the point where you'd consider getting involved again, how do you manage. if shes almost intense, bullying, demanding, crazy. its getting harder and harder to blow these girls off
2007-01-31 23:55:18 · 4 answers · asked by steveo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over yourself.()
2007-01-31 23:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say so, yeah. Anyone who is demanding & bullying is probably a pain anyway. If she's pushing you, point it out to her. Give her examples of when and how she does it. If she doesn't change her way, do your best to get rid of her. Just don't be wishy washy if you really don't want to be with her. Make a final choice and stick to it! Don't give an inch! Bullies take kindness for weakness, remember that. It might take awhile but you can shake her. If not, be prepared to file a restraining order.
2007-02-01 00:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by FactoryGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time.
If the girl is almost like a bully then she might not be the best one to get involved with.
You need to find someone that you feel comfortable with not someone who will push you to the point of discomfort.
Talk to her about how you feel and see how it goes.
Good Luck
2007-02-01 00:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you must learn to stand up for yourself against these girls.
You don't want in a demanding relationship that your not ready for.
Take some time to yourself & don't be bullied into things your not ready for.
2007-01-31 23:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋