My BF, started not trusting me when I told him he could not move in with me until my son finished school, which is only in June. He said that intellectually he knew that he was wrong, but emotionally, he could not help it. Things went down hill from there. Finally, he started going on the singles sites, and even when he told me that he wanted to give us another chance, he was like a kid in a candy store (being on the singles sites). In an effort to try and understand this, I questioned him about it, where he said, he just could not regain the rapture. I am so hurt! Tonight, he wrote me an email saying: "I don't deny and never did say I didn't have feelings for you.I said I was conflicted.There are times when I feel love for you and others when I don't.Don't know what any of that means. When I am with you I am captivated by you, when not with you ,I don't think about it. I don't understand it ,for what its worth.". What should I do??
2007-01-31 23:53:10 · 4 answers · asked by anny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Congratulations for sticking to your guns and doing what you feel is best for your child!
I'm not into "playing" house either. You have your place and I have mine works for me. : ) Moving in together is a serious step. I'm sorry but it doesn't sound like he is mature enough to realize that. : ( I'm sorry you were hurt. : (
Keep smiling and I wish you all the best. : )
2007-02-01 00:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, a guy worth keeping is one who is always captivated by you, and misses you when he's not with you. YOU DESERVE BETTER, don't let him yank you around. He's basically telling you how he's going to treat you and putting the ball in your court, do you really want that?
2007-02-01 07:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to pi** off. My problem is that when I am with her I am captivated by her and when I am apart I can stop thinking about her. This has been years in the making.
2007-02-01 08:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by Bickie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a guy who knows what he wants..
sounds like he's kinda unsure
2007-02-01 07:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋