right im 19 and have only had sex once whilst sober. every other time i have been hammered. either wasted on drink or been doing drugs. i dont even remember losin me v plates. i had a relationship for 6 weeks and had 2 drink a fair bit before i went to stay at his as i was nervous and any other times id make up an excuse.. im on my period i dont feel well i have plans etc. also i never go on top as im paranoid of my body n think a man will think im crap in bed. ive never tried any other positions. im now worries as im gettin older it will get worse the longer it goes on what shall i do???? ive been brought up with catholic views and never had a dad or much men around when i was younger. went to all girls school do you think this has anything to do with it?
2007-01-31 23:50:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
if they think your crap they aint worth your time. no matter what you look like. ive been married 2 years, ben together 5 years, i dont suck swallow, and raely get on top unless i am in a playfull mood. I usually just keep my eyes closed and if it was up to me id buy stock in batteries for a toy, im just not into sex, im not gay or anything like that im just not into sex, id rather please myself. husband wants me to do all kinds of stuff and im like i dont think so. my dad was never there growing up and my first b/f lasted 5 minutes and that was way back when i was 15 then when i was 20 i met a guy online who lived in canada. if theres somethin u dont like to do just tell them and if they dont wanna accept it then they aint worht it no matter who they are , risk it you have to just do it dont think about what they will think just say i can do it....
2007-02-01 00:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Margaret 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The lack of male role models can certainly affect a woman growing up. Suddenly you are involved with males ...
Honey, you're only 19, relax. Fellas don't fill out a checklist after bonking, rating the woman's body, performance, enthusiasm, skill - only those boys who think that if they give the impression of having been with lots of skilful and stunning sexual partners, no-one will actually think that they themselves aren't accomplished in the scratcher. I'm talking about the ones that are all mouth and no action.
I don't think you should worry about it, really. It's nice to be able to enjoy sex, but it's not the most important thing in life. In time you'll find a caring and considerate partner and you'll learn to giggle and grunt at the same time.
2007-02-01 00:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-02 01:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by quinteros 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry. Sounds stupid but there is no right or wrong way to have sex, its just whatever feels right to you. If you're not comfortable with anything he tries dont be too embarassed to tell him. And lastly dont be going around having drunken sex. Been there done that and believe me, you'll enjoy it more with someone you like and when you're sober
2007-01-31 23:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by kit 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll find most of us had these worries when we were younger..enjoy it as it is, do what comes naturally, its not a test.. forget your past u cant change it, live for today,look to the future..and u dont need to be drunk or stoned to enjoy sex!
good luck
2007-02-01 00:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your upbringing probably does have somethin to do with it, i really think u need to talk to a professional about it or u will find it hard to have a normal relationship, good luck :-)
2007-02-01 08:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by BscHons 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouls talk to your boyfriend about discuss the sitution i'm sure he will understand
2007-01-31 23:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by jcathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay drunk. it's an over rated pass time, unless you're on your own
2007-01-31 23:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by Troubled Joe(the ghost of) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋