We have been together for 6 yrs now. Still i'm not happy wit him, if i do anything wrong he would beat me.and when he's in the wrong he'll jus pretend nothing happen n the best part i have to SHUT UP! This started 4 yrs back when i went out wit another guy. Till now he still doesn't want to let me go that easily. he will make sure that i suffer enough mentally or physically. he use threats if i say i wan to break up wit him. i have already suffered enough from him. what should i do? who should i go to?
2007-01-31 23:30:40 · 24 answers · asked by fanciable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im in singapore a country so small, here we stay wit our parents. im still studying n 22yrs old. he knows where i stay.
2007-02-01 00:26:11 · update #1
First, you need to get out. If you can not afford to do that, you may have to go to a women's shelter. You are in a very unhealthly relationship. No one deserves to be beat....no matter what!!! You need to file a protective order once you do leave. Don't be like every other woman out there that wants to know what she should do and then she doesn't do it....DO IT!
2007-01-31 23:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to find someone in your area that can help you, like a womens shelter or crisis facility. If youhave family then go to them. Do you live together with this jerk? You have to get out. If you don't then get a restraining order. It's true they don't always stop them from coming near you but at least you can start there and get the police involved. If it's that bad you will not be able to do it without help from someone. So start looking for help immediately. Do you want to end up dead? Honey please, get help I can't stand to hear about things like this it drives me insane and I don't even know you. I don't care if you screwed his brother 4 years ago, you still do not deserve to get beat by any man !!!! Well he's not really a man he's a punk, GET AWAY FROM HIM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck.
2007-01-31 23:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
they all say the same thing i am sorry it wont happen again i love you and it don't stop they just keep beating you been there done that if i was you i would go to the police and get out you can even go to a shelter for abused woman it don't get better only worse you were not put on this earth to be beaten get out while you can trust me it don't get better i know what it is like i have put up with it for yrs and one day i woke up and i made the choice to get out and it was the best thing ever good luck and be careful
2007-01-31 23:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-23 19:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG you should pack up and leave asap, he's a control freak. You seriuosly need to get out of that relationship before he ruins your life. Go to a friend or your family, somewhere he wont find you.
You need to stand up, pull your socks up and dust yourself off, take what you have learnt over the last 6 years and leave the bad behind, now start living YOUR life.
2007-01-31 23:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by f_jayce 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You need to get out NOW!! Go to your family's house, a friend, somebody. Call the cops and put a restraining order against him. And if he come near you again, send his behind to prison. What he's doing to you is completely wrong and you shouldn't stay with him one more day. Look for the nearest domestic violence center in your area and go to them. They also have many ways to help you get out of that house. Just wait till he goes off to work, pack your bags and get out and never go back. People like that don't change. Please get out now!!!!
2007-01-31 23:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Pls can you open your eyes and see him for what hes doning to you and not for the way you feel. if you love yourself, get out!! he still cant forgive you after 4 years? love is about trust and forgiveness, if he cant then you must tell him to duck. i know its not easy leaving. in fact its gonna hurt more but eventualy youll be over him, but if you stay you are gonna get hurt forever. pls girl, look after yourself. forgive him and move on with a healty, loving heart.
2007-01-31 23:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Leave him. I have a friend I helped move out while he was at work one day. He's using threats to make you do what he wants you to.
2007-01-31 23:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG!!!!
IS there someone you can go to like a family member or something? my best advice is to get rid of him! If you can go somewhere safe where where he can't find you call the police!I'm so sorry! i hope everything works out fine.
2007-01-31 23:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla S 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you are wise enough then go to police and file a case against him or to leave him
2007-01-31 23:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by sonali s 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋