i cant understand men 4 the life of me! say a lad thinks a lass is 'fit' gets on really well with her, have sex now and again but doesnt want to take things further? i dnt understand, thats just an example but can someone giv me a brief explanation to a mans mind?
2007-01-31 23:26:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This lad is probably knocking a few other lasses off at the same time - No guilt if your not in a relationship with one lass - and talk about bragging rights with his mates! He'll be like "I'm doing 4 different birds at the moment" - Plus he doesn't have to do any of the other stuff usually associated with a relationship - lucky b'stard
2007-01-31 23:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lads/Men we all think in different ways just like you girls, unfortunately some guys are out for as much as they can get (if you get my meaning) whilst using as Little commitment or effort as poss. other guys think they are just having a good time and don't really know or care about how the other party feels. It sounds like someone has taken the p**s out of you , if so please don't put us all in the same box. I started seeing my wife when we were both 13 and now we are 23 married with a child. You just have to be careful before fully committing to sex with someone. And remember always use protection. Sorry to sound like a dad but I am. Good luck in finding out how a mans mind works, I'm still trying to figure out women.
2007-01-31 23:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by Trev23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are basically predatory. Sex now and again with a super hot girl is nirvana if we are linked to someone else. If we are single we just think that it would be nice to experience lots of super hot girls before we settle down. We assume that girls think the same (nah, not really, we know, but we hope...) Eventually we grow up and settle down. In the mean time take care of your own emotions - we don't totally break the link between sex and love, but the link is not as strong as with the gorgeous, beautiful, wise and wonderful opposite sex.
2007-01-31 23:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Bickie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are..... Difficult.. I have 7 guys that are my friend and they are all different but the one thing they agree on is that ladies are more difficult... See, they like blaming everything on us... I just go with it cuz in the end it doesn't matter what they say it only matters how you react to it. SO on that note.. every man is different. Some are sex loving dogs who rather see a half dressed girl dancing on a pole and some are gentle and sweet and loyal... its a guessing game with them
2007-01-31 23:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok - see - you've gone wrong in your first sentance....men/minds - does not equal work.!
men/minds = s.e.x nothing else. maybe the odd football match - but it doesn't stretch much further than that really.
so .... in brief - unless the football is on their brain is further south than their belt.! If the football is on - dont expect anything....not a single little thing other than screamed abuse which is actually directed at the tele and not you.
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2007-02-01 01:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats the million dollar question. Dont even try to understand fellas because millions of girls have tried before you and failed and you won't be the last. Pack of head wreckers the lot of 'em but im sure they'd say the same about us girls.
2007-01-31 23:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by kit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of the most mixed up sex driven thing in the world and then multiply by ten then add a bit of childishness in to it then you are about a tenth of the way there lol from a bloke who's been there and got thre tee shirt and the ticket stubs to prove it !!!!!
2007-01-31 23:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew1968 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its not to do with Beer, Sex or football they have no idea what you are talking about.
It sounds like this lad is out for what he can get with no strings attached.
2007-01-31 23:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's there to understand? You're complicating the issue. He likes sex. Nobody mentioned a relationship - what would we want one of those for?
Men's minds work in the here and now.
We like beer, sex, chips and football.
We fear the future because it may limit access to these commodities.
Women complicate things once they try to introduce a non beer/sex/chips/football related subject.
2007-01-31 23:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
They want a sexy affectionate playmate... they like things like that...
Someone how loves kissing and touching or nmore and going out and having fun... But not becoming his boring parents stuck at home with no social life.
Also often why guys date younger girls
2007-01-31 23:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋