I really like this guy i know, but im not sure how he feels about me, how can you tell when a guy might like you back...?? He calls me sometimes but not very often...i'm just stuck here..somebdy help...
2007-01-31 22:57:34 · 13 answers · asked by ElizabethsAdvise 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How to Know if a Guy Likes You ???? ahh.the most common question asked by girls all over the universe !! lol ! cheer up girl and its not embarresing ! its normal ! so here goes ~~~~~~~
Probably the best way to know if a guy likes you is to simply ask him, but we all know that can be a challenge. So, here are a few clues to working out if he likes you as much as you like him.
#Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that his body position will lean forward toward you.
##Keep close. Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back.
###Make eye contact. If he likes you, he'll get it and hold it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa.
####You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly.
#####Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.
######Keep an eye out. His pupils will dilate (get bigger) if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might look a bit weird looking that closely into his eyes.
#######Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.
########Joke freely. Does he laugh, even if you aren't funny?
#########Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, etc. Unless he's scared of public speaking and is about to make a presentation, it just might be that he's nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies (hopefully you).
##########Smile. A big smile in return probably means the feeling is mutual.
###########See if he always end up in the same part of the room as you. Perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you.
############Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him.
THE BEST ONE (according to me that is !!!!)
Generally, think about how you act when you like someone, and look for those signs in others.
He might be shy and/or introverted. In these cases, you have to be especially gentle and patient.
Warning
Beware of friendly, outgoing guys. You might think he likes you but he might be like that with everyone and not realize how it is making you feel about him and his intentions.
If he seems comfortable talking to you about other girls, he probably does not like you in "that way." Either that, or he is trying to make you jealous, which might mean that he likes you but doesn't reflect too well on his character.
2007-01-31 23:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, I'm an old bloke contemplating an affair. While I have tender, honest feelings for my possible other, I recall that when I was younger, hormones tended to rule....
So be careful, but I think in this day and age you can ask him some hing that will advance the relationship - a date opportunity if you like. However, construct for yourself a fall back position to retain your dignity if he declines (hopefully nicely) and be very certain in your mind about where you might want the date to lead in the first instance. Keep control.
2007-01-31 23:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by Bickie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually happens with guys and rarely happens with girls!
some guys may not call often even if they like you as they may think you may not like them. How close are you to this guy? How often you guys hang out? You give a little approach and then see his reaction. If he remains the same way as he is now, then no point.
2007-01-31 23:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sandeep R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a grip on it girl
you got pride?
well if you want this guy to respect you don't come across all needy and clingy.. he probably is using you for a spare tire.
i did that sometimes and i really was not aware of doing this until i lost a real nice girl who really like me..but when i came to my senses it was too late. just be warm but don't be a doormat
2007-01-31 23:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 04:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm try one thing... next time when he calls u then tell me to call u very next day and make it a habbit to ask him to call u next day or ask him when will he be calling u next time. this will make his calls quite regular if he is interested in you.
there is one couple i know who took more then an yr to over come this phone thing.. guy wanted to call girl more often but he thought she might feel he is flirting.
n vaise... u can call him too.
2007-01-31 23:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by urlastdesire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na if he calls you sometimes it shows he wants something more like he likes you, but for some reason wont make a move until he is sure your there showing him your interested...
2007-01-31 23:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by xX-steve-o-Xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the guys are inhibitionist..they are not showy of their feelings..sometimes girls need to be flirty also or make the first move so that boys know that you like them..
2007-01-31 23:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by marje 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then tell him straight that you like him. hello 2007! or maybe do something like invite him for a barkada outing and just spend more time with him. If he likes you then he'll do something to please and you'll feel it.. at the right time...
2007-01-31 23:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by hey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to lunch or coffee
talk to him
lunch or coffee is not a date its like a get to know you better
2007-01-31 23:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋