My step-daughter age 25 moved back home a few months ago, my wife/gf travels alot in her work, but this past week has been 5 days has been out of town attending to her mother's final affairs, I have been with her. But had to come home a day early. I had called my step daughter and told her i'd be home around 730pm.
When i arrived home around 745pm, i entered my house, and of course our dogs began to bark etc. I walked upstairs to my master bedroom and found my step-daughter in my jetted tub.
She wasn't running the jet's or i'd have known someone was in the tub. I walked in the bedroom and saw her completely naked and she didn't even seem startled.
My question is this: Do i perhaps have a problem looming with this young lady?
When her mother is home she always closes the door to her bedroom, when her mother is away on business she always leaves it wide open. Some nights when i've gotten ready to go to bed i'll go up to the bedroom and she's laying on the bed watching tv
2007-01-31 22:49:20 · 11 answers · asked by michael_trussell 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Be care full,be very care full.She perhaps is jealous of your relationship with her mom and wants to sabotage it any way she can.The moment you let yourself start dwelling on it and loose control,she will use it to destroy your relationship.Only you can control the outcome of this situation.You really don't know what her motives are,good,bad,or otherwise.Then on the other hand,her motives could be quite innocent and we're all reading too much into it.Just be very care full about your behavior when your around her.
2007-02-01 01:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by WAKE 99 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she's starving for male attention. Tell her politely, when you aren't in an awkward sitution, that you would appreciate her taking more care with her modesty when she is in your home. She knows better, she's simply trying to get male attention. At this point, I would leave it alone otherwise, because if you were to try to become better bonded with her in a step-fatherly way, she would probably misconstrue it.....steer clear and hopefully she will find a more appropriate man to get attention from.
2007-02-01 00:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is trying her best to get you in bed but you better stop it before that happens because she can tell your wife anything she wants now especially that you seen her naked, better tell her she needs to find a place of her own you need to talk to your wife about this.
2007-01-31 23:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your stepdaughter that it is time that she starts looking for her own place. It sounds like she probably has some issues with her mother and wants to hurt her mother through trying to seduce you. She is trouble. Stay away.
2007-01-31 23:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by ms_quiltsalot 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe she is more comfortable with you than with her mother. However, you need to set boundaries with her...just tell her to stay out of your room especially since it sounds like it makes you uncomfortable. And, if she does have a crush on you that is not your fault...just make it clear thru your actions that you do not want her in your things!!! Good luck to ya!!!
2007-01-31 23:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your SD is disrespecting you and her mother in your own house. She's 25 and old enough to move into her own place if she can't respect you and your wife. What do you say to her and have you told your wife?
2007-02-01 05:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by Rockin' Robin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like she is trying to seduce you.I know you are a man and its hard to resist sometimes but then again you may not even think of her in this way,whatever the case may be tell her please close the door when you are bathing and please don't be in my room so much.Watch tv in your own room.Why is she 25 and living at home still?that issue needs to be addressed too.
2007-02-01 01:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by samwise25 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make Woody Allen your icon, and get lost.
2007-02-01 00:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by sexy grandmother 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'd better be careful, i think she is interested in you.
2007-01-31 23:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her intentions are not good.Keep away from her.
2007-01-31 23:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋