my wife has extream positive and negative behaviour.?

Question

Many times i have observred that my wife has extream positive and negative behaviour,with very small things she becomes very happy and for very small things she goes deep negative. As many times she shares the positive cycle with the friends, they like her comapny, as there is no hurting things and almost no responsibility is shared, but in household issue, there is pain, as well as responsibility too, where i have to see her deep negative cycle, where as others are able to see her as a laughter channel.Please suggest me, should i show her to Doctor, and if yes, then how i should convice her that there seems some imbalance.

Answer 1

Always come out of love and gentleness...

Share with her your deepest concern without anger or fighting.

Tell her for the sake of your partnership you yourself wouldnt be a good partner if you didnt point this out to her and will she please consider going for an evaluation.

Then maybe in advance you can have reach numbers etc.
This will show her your not just making a blanket statement, you took the time and attention for her and maybe print out stuff on the internet about bipolar depression.
Conclude you need her around for the next 50 years and no matter what you will be at her side!

Answer 2

Comunication is the best thing for any one, and you can set her down and just tell her, look I have been seeing some things in your personality that have me consurned, and I want to bring it to your attion, and see if you see it also, (she may have no clue)
If she is going through the minnapaze thing, she needs to be aware of it,
There is pills at the health food stores for her, one is called stress x. It helps calm the mind and the mood,
There is one called Hot flash.. Ask her if she has had any hot flashes.
Then natural hormone, Its my happy pills, and I have her problem, but a wonderful husband who stays in contact with my feelings by helping me keep on my pills.
Another one is liquied B12, that is a brain vitamen, it helps with mood swings, That is what your describing.
Its when hormone is not in the body, with women, its lack of it.
when we mood swing, trust one who knows.
I drink tea, and eat before 7 PM. It helps.
I can feel a mood coming now, and prevent it, Only because my sweet husband took time and sat me down and told me he was consurned, every one changes, and every women goes into it, an mabe it was my time, and we need to do something.
Try somethings. You will find a lot of nice heathy products at the health food store,
Good luck.
But doctor is only going to give her some kinda pill that could do worse to her body, then natural pills. I know, personaly,
I feel better, everyone has a bad day, but it doesnt have to be every day.

Answer 3

Wouldn't hurt to have her consult her doctor. Sounds like a mild anti-depressant is needed. I'm on 10 mg of lexapro. From the little detail I've read in your ?, sounds similar to my problem. I take the lexapro and see a counselor about 2x a month. Very much worth it. Sit her down and have a heart to heart. Be honest. It will be hard. She'll thank for this someday.