ok first of all we have been together for 3 yrs she left me and said she would never get back with me or do anything not even talk...
like 6 weeks later she comes over and we end up doing something that gave me hope...
then she tells me she was sorry and she didnt know it was going to happen and that it will never happen again, but i feel that it will happen because even though she left me cuz she doesnt love me we still have a spark that makes us want each other like that its like a special connection that makes us want to be together and it just tells me she isnt over me...and i told her if it does happen again its her body telling her that of which it wants and to let it happen...
and she continuly tells me it wont happen again, but thats something she isnt sure of just like saying she wont do anything with me...
2007-01-31 22:21:10 · 8 answers · asked by xX-steve-o-Xx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ya and i DO LOVE HER ALOT
2007-01-31 22:28:01 · update #1
AND dont forget we have a daughter together...
2007-01-31 22:28:58 · update #2
she left me cuz she said she doesnt have the love for me as a couple would... plainly i think she is confused...
2007-01-31 22:43:26 · update #3
she is obviously trying to get away from you - and why - she must be unhappy and have her reasons. i don't know the reasons why she does what she does. you know better. i tell you my little story. i really love this guy. we have known each other for one year (yes, not nearly as long as your relationship). i'm 29 and think i'm not overreacting .. ;) still i can't manage to be reasonable and completely leave this guy! he is unfaithful. he is making fun of me and of other girls he knows (thinks he can have them all..what he does actually) - to make it short - he gives me no hope he will ever be a better man - that he will be ever faithful & loyal. and this is just a reason to leave him. and i do know the situation that my heart (and body) wants him, but my mind tells me to leave by all means!!! i still didn't manage to leave completely. but i'm on my way. actually seeing this guy as rarely as i can. and yes.. the spark is always there.. makes it even harder to be reasonable. good luck if you love her! show her you truly want her. you are there for her. don't rush.. i don't know what else to say. except that i wish you have the love back in your life - that you have your little family back :-) take care
2007-01-31 23:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by india18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not meant to be together all the time, sounds like she is confused about her feelings, but give her some space and let her make the moves,she may come back to stay. You didnt say why she decided to break it off with you? If you still have that old spark between you, you guys may be able to stay more than just friends. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-01 06:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by Eve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should have some time apart without even being in touch and then see how you both still feel. i don't either of you really know what you each want. just give it time, if its for you, it wont pass you
2007-02-01 06:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when she says that it wont happen be sure that she's unhappy of the thing happened! therefore she'd try to make everything better! and also she'll try to keep u happy! i'm sure that she's really in love with u!
don't leave her alone
2007-02-01 06:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by usa_metalsoft 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still loves you. but try to open up with her. why did she dump you in the first place?! you guys have a heart-to-heart talk. maybe that will help you guys. good luck.
2007-02-01 06:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats called sex
thats called friends with bennifits
thats called gettin laid with out commitment
thats called a booty call
get used to it. thats all she wants and if the sex is good then why not
2007-02-01 06:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by jingles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she should not keep comming back and you should not let her come back and leave hope to you look shes playing you as you are her so you figure it out either your going to stop it or let it ride
2007-02-01 06:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rock it on and on and on and on! Good luck!
2007-02-01 06:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋