2007-01-31 22:19:50 · 14 answers · asked by uofmcrazyfan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your resolution may be to limit your budget or bench-press 175 pounds a day, but those won't necessarily put a smile on your girlfriend's face. Here are the 10 best promises you can make to keep her as happy as ever.
10. Take her out with your friends
You know that she would love to hang out with you when you go out with your friends. Unless you intend on meeting other ladies or pulling some stunts that she might not condone, take your girl out with you. She will have so much fun and love you for it.
9. Don't drink, don't smoke
Chris Rock pointed out that men never go home straight from work, they got to go "drink something, meet someone, smoke something..." -- you get the idea. And we all know why. But if you really want your lady to be impressed, it's pretty simple: stop drinking, stop smoking.
8. Take her out more often
Especially if you do not like to take her out with your friends, then at least make sure that you take her out often. Yes, it would be nice to take her to restaurants, movies and shopping. But you need not $pend like crazy, just spend time with her; that is all she really wants.
7. Listen to her
Sounds simple. Just do it. Guys ask me "how can I make her happy?" No wonder you don't know, you don't listen to her. Successful relationships come down to two factors: how well one listens, and how well one communicates thoughts and feelings. Master one, and then deal with the other.
6. Don't lie to her
White lies, fibs, whatever. I know it's hard, but you have to learn to be honest about everything. You would be shocked to learn how easily things backfire. Especially if your circle of friends is small. Make a habit of being truthful in everything you say and do. You will love this in the end.
5. Get along with her friends
Okay, I get so many e-mails about your girlfriend's friends that do this and that... I know it may be hard, but you should see yourselves as partners in the quest to make your girlfriend happy, and not competition. You should leverage one another, not bicker like children.
4. You will cook something other than macaroni and cheese
Why is it that she brings you something to eat and drink when you come over out of the blue, but the most you have to offer her is macaroni and cheese on good days, and water and crackers in between. Whatever you do, buy a book, take some classes, or just use trial and error. She will be impressed and touched by your efforts.
3. Reciprocity
If she massages you, make sure you give her the backrub of a lifetime. If she would go to any length to please you, then you should do the same. So many women tell me how their men just do not return the favors. Instead of saying enough is enough, they take it all and accept the status quo. Men, don't hate me for saying this, but you will lose your woman if you keep that up.
2. Get her what she wants
I always get blasted for implicitly encouraging men to spend money on women. Well, the point is not how much you spend, but how you spend. I know that some of my most successful gifts cost nearly nothing; the idea is that you listened to her when she mentioned something and got her the perfect gift.
1. Get along with the folks
Surprisingly, most of our readers seem to get along with the parents of their loved ones; except for a few that simply seem to have vendettas and feel pure hatred. I know it's easier said than done, but while some girls actually get turned on by the bad boy who hates the parents, most girls really prefer that their men get along with their families. Less hostility makes for a happy girl.
2007-02-01 04:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by frisky_pink_bunny22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pull her over to the side when your talking to her. Then look into her eyes with a smile on your face and ask her if she wants to go to a movie or something, then if she says sure then she likes you, if she says yes she really likes you and wants to go out with you for sure, and if she says no then she isnt interested right now, but keep on trying even if she says no.
2016-05-24 01:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by Claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prepare 3 or 4 different gifts , and during a good day every one hour give her one by one , and give the last one when you want say goodbye , the price of these gifts is not important but girls like people who are creative !!!
good luck .
2007-01-31 22:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by Farzaneh H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a lot of sweet things you can do for her!!
you can.. make her a video cd. a personal one! do something romantic.. there's a lot. like.. bring some fantasy to life. that will surely make her love you more! =9 be as sweet as possible. good luck with that.
2007-01-31 22:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy... listen to her when she speaks.. than you know what she crave for the most...
example
give her something sentimental... something like when she goes to school... you lined up flowers to form the word "I LOVE YOU" where when peeks out from her class and she could see it...
im sure that will be soo special
ohhh... hope u wont get busted for doing that.. haha
2007-01-31 22:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Tsarey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is spend time with her.Suprise her by taking her to a place which she always dreams of going to.Since you will the first person to go with to her dream place she will not forget you.She will always remember you as the person who took her to her dream place.
2007-01-31 22:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find a nice shopping place and go there with ur girlfriend and tel her to chooose the thing that she really like! and then choose a very special restourant .......... WOW nice night!
2007-01-31 22:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by usa_metalsoft 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Create something for her. Make it special.
2007-01-31 22:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by Hansinchina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouls take her out somewere nice or buy her something, but befor you splash the cash you sould make sure she feels the same way about you! goodluck babe. Xx
2007-01-31 22:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by u'd tap this! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her some flowers or candy for Valentine's day. You got 13 days left -- do it.
2007-01-31 22:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by waytooeasy67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋