If someone doesnt love you and you LOVE them couldnt that be enough just to talk about it, or if they say not right now maybe later, but i wont guarentee it anything can happen. What does that really mean no or does it really mean what the words are saying, or lets say time can have it happen if its willing...?
2007-01-31 21:57:29 · 12 answers · asked by xX-steve-o-Xx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH srry we've been together for 3 yrs..
2007-01-31 22:02:29 · update #1
and we have a daughter and well she supposedly stopped loving me
2007-01-31 22:03:18 · update #2
and not to mention she is a teenager...
2007-01-31 22:05:28 · update #3
That's someone trying to let you down easy or just keeping you around for their own benefits.You can't say "Maybe one day I will love you" When you fall in love there is no pressure and it just happens. I suggest you move on if you love someone and they don't love you back. Love IS enough if you have two people to complete the heart.
OK so after reading that you have been together for 3 years and have a child then that's a whole other story. I fell out of love with my child's father after 3 years. We broke up for a year and I found out that the grass was brown instead of greener on the other side. We got back together because we both had time to grow and realize what we were missing. We just had our 2nd child and we're happier than ever.I think I felt that way because the romance was gone. Step up your game a little.Do things that you did when you were first dating. Just remember to give her space and time to think it out. Don't throw in the towel until you have to.
Hint: The more he tried the more I pulled away. The moment it felt like he was going to let me move on I started getting feelings again. Test that out and see what happens
Ps I think your hot so if you dont work things out with her Im sure you'll find love again
2007-01-31 22:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry man, thats rough. Hope you manage to move on.
It sounds like the love is all gone. When its just one side of the partnership that no longer feels that way, its very hard on the other. Thats you and I'm feeling for you, I had the same thing with a girl I went out with for eight years. I reckon it took me about a year and a half and the love of a really good new girl to put it behind me.
You have the extra complication of your daughter, and no matter how fraught the situation, and what you eventually decide to do, you need to keep talking and do what is best for her. Your own emotions and interests must be made secondary to her needs. I'm sure you know this already, and I'm sure you're a good dad, but just in case.
Good luck with moving on from this, whatever happens.
2007-02-01 06:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by Whateverandeverandamen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can mean many things she could simply be unsure or maybe she is unsure of you.
Give her time but love is a two way street and is pointless if not returned. If you have only been together a short time then give her time and try to get to know her and let her get to know you. If it's been a while and hasn't happened yet you may be barking up the wrong tree.
You can't force love and so it needs to be returned, also make sure you are truly in love with her and not just in love with the idea of being in love.
2007-02-01 06:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by Twi Light 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is telling you to your face that they do not love you....then don't think that one day they might or will. They are telling you plain and simple. Love isn't enough. Unfortunately, the people we love do not always feel the same way. Don't beat yourself up and whatever you do, don't become a pest. Move on...I am sure you are a great person and you will meet the perfect fit one day. Good Luck
Additional Info...oh yes..it's time to move on....time hasn't changed it for the better...Sorry
2007-02-01 06:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by aprildin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a commitment. Ya have so many issues added on . Ya have the responsibility of a child. Plus your love interest has just begun to grow up. Most that age cannot make adult decisions responsibly. Bottom line. work and support your child. If love stays after no sex after a month then tell her about your commitment then move on if nothing comes of it.
2007-02-01 06:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by seekingproverbs31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that if you love someone there isn't anything that will hold you back because if you love someone you want to be with that person and you want to work it out so much that nothing really would matter enough to make you think to let it wait or wait and see.. there should be the same "level of commitment" on both parties for a satisfying relationship..
but I also believe in prayers.. because I believe God answers prayers.. if you love someone and she said maybe not now.. then respect her decision.. and pray for her.. if she is yours.. God will give her to you in the right time.. God bless you.
2007-02-01 06:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by terra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i am sorry that means i am not interested. i know this beacuse i have heard that line 2 many times myself. your best bet would be to try and move on and i know that is the last thing you want to hear but it is true. well i wish you the best of luck and if all you really needed was love the world would be a much better place.
2007-02-01 06:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by psycho_rhonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time. you can't really find out why. it is possible that she isn't ready for that thing called "LOVE". or she's not ready to love YOU. or maybe even.. well, there's a lot of possible reasons. just give her time to think about it. don't ever force someone to love you. good luck with that.
2007-02-01 06:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i love someone and he doesn't love me, i'd still choose of telling him that i love him coz maybe that's the only chance i got for me to tell him how i feel. now, if he loves me too, that's great! i'll be very happy. if he doesn't, then it's fine...at least i have told him how i feel...that'll be enough for me...:-)
love can wait my friend...believe me, i know...:-)
2007-02-01 06:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by an_angel_in_d_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should look around for someone else.
2007-02-01 06:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by waytooeasy67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋