Why is it just as a guy is older then a girl people think they are only interested in sex?

Question

Why is it just as a guy is older then a girl people think they are only interested in sex? that whey would have noting in common etc etc...


How about this notion... pretty simple...


As you get older, you dont change, you have the same interests as you did in late teens, the same interest in music, parties, clubbing, dancing, bowling, movies, adventure sports, stage diving, wild party games, fancy dress, alternative scenes etc etc.


But all your mates coupled up, then got boring, stopped hanging out and started familes so nor more sinlge life.


So then you start trying to make friends or pull youngr people who are still into

music, parties, clubbing, dancing, bowling, movies, adventure sports, stage diving, wild party games, fancy dress, alternative scenes

And not into dinner parties, discussing curtains, looney notions of appropaite behavourm, wearing suits and never going anywhere where single people hang out on the pull?

ie instead of being the evil perverted manipulators of innocent younger ladies

(yeah like late teenas early twenties girls going to 18-30 holidays and entering wet t shirt competitins at the heirght of the ability to get guys attention are all the innocent... as sure werent when you were their age)


How about guys in late 20s and early 30s...


Just want the same social life and love life they had or their mates had and want all the same things maybe as missed out.


yes they would inc sex and snogging etc... but also having mates to club and go gigs with and party and the lads to check out girls with...


etc

ASLO HOW DOYOU GROW UP WITHOUT DOING THE SAME THINGS EVERYONE ELSE DID, AT THE SAME TIME, IN THE SMAE ORDER...


if you missed out how do you catch up when nobody you age wants to do that stuff any more as been there done it.

And now seen as too old by those doing it... in terms of relationship level...



Ie no long term live in relationship, so only at dating level


if everyone you age is used to long term live in realtioship culture and thinking...


How do you cope when you are at the girls vs guys, prack war on holiday, so in so fancies so in so make up in clubs stage.

when people treat you different simply as have had birthdays you never asked for

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Summary


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Why do people see guys in late tenties and 30s wanting to date late teens 20 somethings and hang out with people that age as some nasty perve.


As opposed to someone lonley who is into the same stuff as he did at that age, never asked to grow older, wants the same mates and social life as had when was younger, and the same types of girls that maybe he could not get when younger.

So did not develop long term realtioship wise and cannot realte to anyone his age in any way.

Ie just wants a social and love life thats all same as anyone else

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Or equally if in early twenties late teens dating 15 year olds simple as at the same...


how do you get girls to like and notice you, level as they are... ie shelters, strict paretns, no good with girls etc...


And could not be preditory with a injured bunny.

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Mary its pointless trying to make friends with people in 30s as all they want to do is sit down, wear suits, drink in a pub.


They never go out as either married with kids, in a couple, or some fancy job.


And when they go out its only couple friendly boring dull places...



Not running to jup of stage into wild mosh pits, hang out with lots of single mates cheering on the wet t shirt girls (then the girls cheer on the wet boxer boys) in bar games and foam parties.


over 30s idea of a party does not not involve the dop gardens, snogging everywhere and drinking games.

Their night clubs dont involve sitting on the floor or having bright coloured punky dreadlocked hair due to office restrictions...


Ie most my age are boooooooooring, broke, too coupled up, ot kids or otherwise dont come out.

Whilst late teens twenties are single, snoggy, big groups, fun, exciting etc.

Whilst those in 30s only want to settle down, have kids, be boring, gorw old and die having turned into knitting and bowling freaks and total hypocrits.




Also you make the false assumption that older people have lived this life and been married and had long term relationships...


What if they have not been with somone longer then a few weeks in a realtionship no different to the average 16 year old?

Answer 1

I think the rules that society has created can cause a lot of people to condemn others for age difference or sexual orientation. Like. A man living on his own is gay or strange. An older man going out with a younger girl is perverted. A girl getting pregnant when young is a slapper, etc. People very seldom look at their own faults or behaviour. But are all too quick to condemn others. If you don't fit the norm you are an outsider and I find that very sad in this modern society.

Answer 2

Read some of the posts some guys put up on this site and you will understand why us older women are fed up. We are tired of grabby questions about genitalia, sex, secretions and bosoms. But you will find page after page of such questions here. Plus many of us want a guy who actually wants to spend quality time with us outside the bedroom, and is capable of holding a conversation, emotionally available, faithful, honest, hardworking and not too harsh on the eyes. Oh, and we would also like him to have a reasonable idea what he is doing in the sack, although I am happy to share my knowledge in this area - with the right guy, of course. The truth is, too many of us have been let down repeatedly. Hence some of us are jaded.

Answer 3

Is this a book or is it supposed to be a question - if the latter, why repeat the first line every time and why do your questions normally take up about three pages of text, especially with all the line spaces you add. You really ARE hard work to get through and I'm sure I'm not alone in saying that by the time I've reached the end of your diatribe I've forgotten what the question is and so move on. That's all I have to say, and I shall read no more of your questions.

Answer 4

Cause they wonder what is wrong with the older person....there is nothing wrong with wanting to hang out with people younger, but there is a limit to the age of people you can hang with

A early 30 male with a teenage girl, he has lived his life and has had time to work out who he is, the teenage girl she is still to learn who she is and dosent need someone older who thinks they know what is right

Sure you may know what is right, but it is a pain in the butt when you have someone telling you instead of finding out for yourself

Best to try and make some friends who are closer to your age than 10 years younger

And trying to pull someone you are going to get around females who are younger, sounds bad and perverted to me

You need to grow up a bit mate

Answer 5

I hear what ya saying dude, I'm in the same boat, I think life is for living, maybe I will settle down one day, but I like having purile fun, n having a chuckle, I dont need shackles n chains on me, I wanna party n live, I'm freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee yey! so why do I need to grow up, I'm happy n doing no harm.

Answer 6

Oki Doki Mr Poki

Answer 7

Well saying you are only interested in sex may be a bit harsh but you're going to attract some negative comments from narrow minded people. Do what makes you happy and to hell with everyone else.






But if you're in your nineties mind you don't break a hip!

Answer 8

It just means ur not ready to grow up.. remeber 16 will get you 30... so check those Id's and have fun!

Answer 9

well some time the girl is older than the guys and people think than the guy sure be older than the girl but that dint make no differ if you love some one

Answer 10

Sounds to me Peter Pan, that you've never grown up.

Your perogative, but don't expect other adults to understand, cause they won't. They expect you to fit into their life-perspective.