I'm interested in a long-term relationship with a guy I've got a third date with. I don't want to sleep with him so soon, as I don't want our major shared experience to be sex. How many weeks/months should I wait to sleep with him? And how should I let him know that I'm not a tease?
2007-01-31 21:26:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not have sex with him unless you feel a connection with him. Also, wait till he has declared that he is dating you exclusively.
2007-01-31 21:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by tony01p 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When its right, you'll want it as much as he already does by default. Until then, is how long you should wait, and if he's not prepared to wait, he's not the right guy.
As far as letting him know you're not a tease, just tell him you do want to have a full physical relationship, but you're just not ready yet. If he is pressuring you, tell him you don't like that.
2007-01-31 21:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by Whateverandeverandamen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when the right time comes for the both of you you will know don´t be pushed into it if the man loves you he will wait.if he ask´s you before you are ready then speak to him and tell him so.he will understand and if he don´t then he´s not worth it
good luck
2007-01-31 21:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No more then a month. Most expect it on the third date, but if he respects you he will wait.
2007-01-31 21:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think any time now would be a good time. I wouldn't wait for the fifth date.
2007-02-01 01:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by so 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait 1 month and let him know ur not a tease by giving him head
2007-01-31 21:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by sportsfreak61787 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wait for a month
2007-01-31 21:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by codedfeelins 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Time and duration has very little to do with having or not having to sleep with your partner. Urges, tust and love have. You have to listen to the urges and love and have trust in your partner, because if you don't one of you will go somewhere else and possibly for good. Men have very little patience when it comes to sex.
2007-01-31 21:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ebby 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
wait until the parents leave the house...!
wait until the two of you are alone!
haha!
2007-02-01 04:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by frisky_pink_bunny22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait tell you are marry be for have sex you ask and that my ape net
2007-01-31 21:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by EVA J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋