2007-01-31 21:18:36 · 9 answers · asked by babygurl28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In most cases we think: this is true love, when in fact it’s not. But than if this ain’t love than what it is? There are plenty of things that we confuse with love.
It could be just the basic instinct. The feelings can be passionate and crazy, but in fact both people may want only sex. And after it all the misunderstanding starts, and once infatuated lovers will find out that they have nothing in common and sometimes they don’t even know what to talk with each other.
Another variant is when people lack support, care and attention to their person or they just scared to stay single. Being with someone can be a habit when one simply got used to the other. It can either be a sick addiction or some self-interest. People call all these types of relationship love just by mistake or trying to conceal the true nature of it.
But than what does real love look and feel like? Maybe it’s when two people seem to know each other for ages and even in their previous lives. They can go on talking and talking and conversation never lacks topics and never gets dull. Or people don’t have to say anything because they understand each other without words. And those moments, minutes and even hours of silence are never uncomfortable. True love is when partners complete one another, when they’re together it’s peaceful, the whole other world with it’s sufferings and problems doesn’t exist and nothing even matters.
True love means understanding. One trusts another more than him/herself and feels ready to satisfy every little need of a partner. Two people don’t stop for a second looking into each other eyes.
It’s said that two persons truly in love aren’t looking at each other but in the one direction. And this is rather reasonable because they don’t say nothing “this is yours and this is mine” and share everything: friends, enemies, interests, problems and etc. One has his/her own identity but sees him/herself only as a part of the other. Still real love is not a relationship of property. If you really love someone you may say “I belong you” but always be ready to let go if it makes the person you love happy.
Jealousy stands out of the true love. How can one be jealous if there’s so much love and faithfulness? Real love doesn’t long for power, it doesn’t want to hurt, doesn’t want to punish for mistakes, it’s self-sacrificing and ready to forgive other and other again. But it’s wrong to think that true love is always a suffering, it only means that you take a person as he or she is and don’t expect the one you love to be perfect.
True love isn’t supposed to blow your mind, yet it doesn’t tend to get and to possess – it’s a and very special state of a soul.
But the question that true love is still has no definite answer. Do we truly love only once in our life? At what age are we supposed to meet our love? Does it last for a lifetime or just for a while? Probably everyone has his own answers to this questions. The truth is that no one should spend life chasing ideals or building relationships by some model of a true love. One will probably fail and miss the real thing beyond all this.
We should remember that very many things we need to supply our healthy and comfortable living but only the true feeling of love makes life really longer and happier. And this is scientifically proved.
2007-02-01 04:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by frisky_pink_bunny22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think true love is when you in a stable relationship, talk about things when we argue, have good times together,go out with your friends as well as he's friends, compromise and have respect for eachother (most important). Treat eachother with respect.
One day when you with someone you'll just now that you hav found true love.
2007-01-31 21:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lady_Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you know it's a feeling that you'll have with no one else. It's like finding your soul mate! To me I reckon true love is being able to share absolutely anything with that one person and even after having a fight after making out........it doesn't change a thing :)
2007-01-31 21:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get affection about someone.. although you have mealed at night you can not sleep without his thoughts. you are looking at your face in mirror and smyle... you can not live without him...
When these symptoms are found in you, then treat that you are in love with someone...
There is no need to find out the same. It is natural process
2007-01-31 21:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by sonali s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its different for each person. For me, it is when love is balanced. When I care about the person but I don't get lost in them so that everything I do is for them. And I can still be me and do things I like to do and let him do things he likes to do...etc. hmmm...I hope that made sense. LOL
2007-01-31 21:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by waltinaw74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No body give the explanation of Love. Love is god i must say. Feeling comes from inside. thats it.
2007-01-31 21:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by MAHI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know when it is a true love when you don't know the
rison why you love that person
2007-01-31 21:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by rina j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no true love and you will never find it. its only understanding and common interest that is around.
2007-01-31 21:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by memonikos 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask.....you haven't found it. You'll know.
2007-01-31 21:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as true love
2015-01-08 03:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋