I was dating this girl, we broke up for a unknown reason she never told me, I call her 3weeks latter and she said that she is pregnant and has a new boyfriend, laughed at me and hung up the phone….and I want to know if I’m the only person that see a problem with this?.... Now this is the girl I had the most feeling for, but I’m a virgin – its not my baby. I know she cared about me and this is the girl I loved the most (and she still is right till this day).and its hard for me to accept that it might be something wrong with her because I’ll starting thinking it something wrong with me – for have that much love for her? We haven’t talk in a 3 mouths. What should I do to get over this problem??
2007-01-31 20:54:19 · 18 answers · asked by Hore M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start seeing other girls. You're drowning in your misery and unless you do something about it you'll stay there and it could lead to other problems. Get back into the social scene and this time don't be so quick to get emotionally involved. That girl was seeing someone behind your back obviously and it something that would have been an issue if you'd stayed with her. Move on.
2007-01-31 21:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want to ask you a question. How old are you? You sound like you have your head on straight. I know you said that you are a virgin, but I want to make sure you and I are on the same page. Did you ever have any petting sessions with her where you may have ejaculated and continued to pet? Just think about it and make sure that there is no way your semen could have come in contact with her vagina, because there are lots of virgin men with children. Penetration is not required.
Secondly... I would realize that this girl may be too immature for you. Find some activities or a job to keep yourself busy. Find people your own age to hang with and you will feel better. If it is meant to be, then it will be.
When I was in the 9th grade my boyfriends mother made him break up with me and trust me we were madly in love. It took me two years to stop thinking about him every day and to start seeing other people. I know he was hurt...just like you...but he did get over it. This is a part of life.
2007-02-01 05:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by aprildin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are feeling is not real love. Love can't be a one way street. Believe me, I know. I've been there. I'm a hopeless romantic. I always thought that if I love with all my heart. Some how this love will find a way. I was wrong. She doesn't love you the way you think you love her. If thats the case, it can never work out. From what you said... She was actually cheating on you... There is someone out there that is right for you... Someone who will make you happy. You deserve to be happy.
2007-02-01 05:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by raiden 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its true she is pregnant and someone was f*cking her right under your nose, you were just a flower boy, since you love airing your virgin status. Forget about her and this must be a lesson to you. Since you are proud of your virginity and holding hands with a horny girl looks right to you, how but you find another girl to just hold hands with while i f*ck her for you. At your service your majesty. read in between the lines you knucklehead, and i hate them people consoling you and telling you sweet nothings instead of telling you to go sharpen your dick and get your groove going, thats reality. All virgins on yahoo questions have problems, open your eyes and learn from others
2007-02-01 09:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar problem with a girl i dated while i was in the military. I really liked and respected her and found out later she was having sex with every Tom Dick and Harry. Her family were so nice to me and used to pick me up in the bus satiation when I was on leave. The mother, father and sisters and brothers treated me better then my own family. The girl that I dated turned out to have had a bad relationship with a guy she really Love and he dumped her. She was screwed up in the head and would have sex with everyone who took her out. I found out later from my best friend and also cousin that he would just take her out and Park with her and you know the rest. She was cute and smart but I guess I could not take this as after she visited me where I was stationed (we spent some time in a motel) she told me she was pregnant. I told her in a letter I found out how she really was and to drop the act as I washed my Hands of her.
Her best friend hooked a guy in the Air Force claiming she was pregnant and the US Air Force Chaplain forced him to marry her )she was not pregnant- they ended up married and had four children..i went by way and she ended up marrying someone else and having a family...enough said..people get burnt and you don't want a women who has to many miles on her. No one minds buying a used car but no one want to buy a Taxi cab.
2007-02-01 05:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants someone with some experince,do u want to waste yo love on someone like her,get a life and grow up,who says u should stick with the one u had most feeling 4 even if their cause u pain,damn
2007-02-01 05:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by lady x 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she treated you the way that she did I would think that she didn't care about you.
Don't use so much energy on someone that treated you so badly.
Go out and start meeting other people and dating other girls, you feeling for her will fade.
2007-02-01 04:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Didn't I just answer this one...? No matter.
It sounds to me like she's being mean and cruel. It's very hard to get pregnant in just three weeks. I'd bet that she's lying just to hurt you.
For you, the best thing is to move on. Meet other women...
2007-02-01 04:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to stop thinking of her. I know, easier said then done. But you have too. It's pretty plain that she said that to get you to stop calling her. So ..STOP.Let her go. you will find someone else that is better for you.
Good Luck
2007-02-01 04:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by gord's360 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let her go... She has betrayed your love... She has baby from other man and you still love her? No! you are not going to b happy
2007-02-01 05:19:08 · answer #10 · answered by DrIcKz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋