what would you do, if u just found out that your boyfriend once imagined someone else when having sex with u? he didnt strait out tell you, you read it somewhere..he didnt strait out say it was me, but he wrote it four months ago and ive been dating him, well july 1st it will be 2 years...
2007-01-31 20:48:39 · 13 answers · asked by face:face 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
andd i found it in a obvious place... its not like i was reading his privite ****
2007-01-31 20:55:47 · update #1
We all fantasize now and then about someone else while we are having sex with our loved ones. Its normal and healthy. Normal because every body, including yourself, fantasize now and then. Its healthy because this is one affair which we can have without causing any real problem. Furthermore, it apices up our relationship.
The rule is, keep it to yourself and don't dig into your partner's mind!
2007-01-31 21:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be offended slightly. We do the same thing sometimes. We think of Brad Pit or some hottie in the movies. The brain likes fantasy. Sometimes it adds to your sexual expierience. Sometimes. IF he is thinking of another friend or someone you know, he might like that person some and wonder what it would be like with that person. WE all do at one time or another. It isn't right but that's how our brains work. We all have our fantasies. I just wonder why he had to write it down for you to find it? That would bother me more than the fantasy itself.
2007-01-31 20:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up ...the sexual fantasy is what is all about.
the old story about putting a two paper bags over the guys wife in case one broke is based on the truth.
yes, we all have went to bed with a 10 and woke up with a 1
booze makes sex possible for ugly people
2007-01-31 20:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont worry (and ignore the mean comments) its normal as long as he thinks and doesent act its ok. THe human brain is a fickle thing and thoughts like that are normal. It doesent mena he loves you any less or wants to leave you. It just means he had a thought.
2007-01-31 20:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by SS4 Elby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys, go figure. there have been volumes of stuff written about how men and women perceive sex differently. But if he was stupid enough to write it down somewhere (I'm guessing MySpace or something?) you have a case to bring it up with him. Are you prepared for the consequences of that?
2007-01-31 20:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by Christop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't fantasize about other people when you are having sex with him... never? Not even some big hot movies star?
It is fantasy and it is normal.
Quit reading your boyfriends stuff!
It is no big deal... would you rather he cheated on you?
2007-01-31 20:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he just IMAGINED it.. then you should be cool! & he didn't say anything about it.. so don't really worry about it. If it still bothers you, just ask him about it randomly/jokingly.. like "Do you ever imagine me having sex with other people?" He'll answer honestly most likely.
2007-01-31 20:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by _____ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being so overly sensitive. Are you not secure in your relationship? Maybe this fantasty helps him be more excited. Good for him, good for you. Completely normal in every way.
2007-01-31 20:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i probably wouldnt do anything because i would feel bad for reading his stuff unless it was no something really obvious then i would be pissed at him for a while but get over it eventually
2007-01-31 20:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people do it at one time or another. Fantasies don't mean anything if one doesn't act on them. I wouldn't worry about it.
2007-01-31 20:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by Cracker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋