hes moving tooo fast but how do i tell him without hurtin him?

Question

we have been dating for about 2 months now and hes already talkin about are weddin.

Answer 1

take this from a guy who has been where he is at. if you like him tell him to slow down and let him know that he is not going to lose you if he does. right now he is fighting to keep you. it may not seem like it to you but he is. you need to talk to him. talking is the best thing you can do and try to come to an understanding. i waited 4 years to be with a girl and when i got the chance those 4 years of emotions came out in a month. if he wants to be with you for the rest of his life after 2 months he loves you. my girl just dropped me and all she had to do was tell me to slow down. just remember to talk.

Answer 2

Well if it has only been two months, I would tell him now...Don't wait...

Just say- I am really enjoying the time we are spending together. Then say something like...in five years I hope to be married with/without children.... with the right person. And in time both you and he will know if you are the right person for each other. This will stun him, but be clear that you aren't leaving or breaking up but that in two months you can't decide if he is the "one". Mention that if you were to up and marry every guy you dated in two months time, you would have never had a chance to meet him.

Think about the messages you may be sending him...

Sex? Too soon, too often...taking any risks you shouldn't be?

Time? Spending every waking moment with him or on the phone together? No time apart?

Words? Are you telling him you love him all day, every day? Hopefully in two months you have told him you love him...some men think if you love me then marry me.

You may have to slow yourself down in order to slow him down.

Whatever you do...do it now before it gets any worse.

Answer 3

i'm a guy and that i accept as true with you thoroughly. I value love some distance more effective than I do lust. Do issues mutually as friends, then artwork on a romantic relationship. Do you appreciate an identical meals, interests, live performance events, track and theater? It takes attempt and time to ensure once you're compatible or no longer. for my area, i like the wonderment and anticipation of a a threat romantic relationship.

Answer 4

You are right that is too fast. Just tell him that two months is too early to talk about a wedding. Convince him not to misinterprete this. By saying" we need to get know more and let is get to know better first. This doesn't mean that I don't have any feelings for you but there is so called time for every thing and let us use the best of this time gap."

Good Luck!

Answer 5

Tell him..talk to him. Explain to him that you both still have alot to learn about each other. 2 months does not constitute a serious relationship, ready to get married. Be completely honest about the way you feel but do so tactfully so you do not hurt him.

Answer 6

Tell him you are enjoying getting to know him and want to keep on the same way you are going, make sure he is clear that you are not ending things with him, but that you are enjoying the moment.

Answer 7

him asking about it dont mean his saying "marry me tomrrow",wen he bring the topic up again,nicely say "öur weddin will one day come but know lets forcus on seeing wheather u & me will still stand each other 2years from now".

Answer 8

tell him ur moving too fast and u want to slow things dwn and make sure to tell em dat u aint dumping hin or anything!!!!!

Answer 9

just tell him straight out, that he is moving too fast and you are not ready yet, and if he really cares for you he will be patient

Answer 10

Tell him now before its too late.