I've known this guy for 4 years since I started being active at church. The choir specifically, of which he is the leader. I'm 19. he's 22. I don't know what's going on with me. We used to be friends, but for some reason he abruptly ended our friendship by cutting all contact with me. I'm a very witty, talkative person, but all that wit just flies out the window when I talk to him. My insides feel like they wanna be on the outside whenever I see him. I wanna see him every time i goto church, but at the same time, I hope he's not there. There are days when I absolutely can't stand him because I think he's so arrogant and conceited, then there are days when I'm overwhelmed by his caring nature and childishness. I don't ever wanna see him because of the way I feel but at the same time, I can't imagine him not existing. What on earth is going on with me? I've felt this way for three years and I've being trying to get over him for two of those years
2007-01-31 20:44:26 · 6 answers · asked by Simply Sasa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are infatuated and have a crush on him! What to do is up to you!
Good luck!
2007-01-31 20:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough question my dear!!! Answering is tough and the solution is even more tough!!! If u love him, then his presence in the church wont be compulsary for u, as he ud b in ur heart n soul forever!If u love him then a choir without him as the leader ud rouse that same ecstacy in u!
If u r in love then u ud keep on wishing that he succeeds in everything that he does, he gets all that he wants.If u love him, u ud be selfless in loving and his reciprocating wont be mandatory for u to continue loving him.Close ur eyes.... do u see him?Do u feel him around u?? Ask urself dear!!! Stop going to the church for two weeks and see ur feeling.This ud work intwo ways, u ud know ur feeling in details and also what he feels for u.When u go there next time, if he tells u that he had noted ur absence,missed u, then u can party!!! U r on the right track! The solution is tough but not impossible! I ud pray for u! Best of luck!!
2007-01-31 20:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by moon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
expensive on the instant ppl, ask your questions in yet another area. family contributors and Relationships (F&R) >Singles & relationship (S&D) that's greater handy to get to, 2 steps quite of three. Love considers the faults and is going forward, Infatuation sees no faults. If obtainable ,relist him as a pal, acquaintances are greater expensive then BF's.
2016-11-23 19:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame, you seem pretty tormented!Well, it seems like you might be obsessed with this dude, but its time you stop the creepy games and just become a bit more obvious about your feelings.Try approaching the subject of having a relationship and if it doesnt work, atleast your suffering will end!
2007-01-31 20:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by HumbleOpinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow three years, thats a long time. I think for that lenght of time it's something more than a crush. I can releate to you though I'm in a situation not too much unlike yours.
2007-01-31 20:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by lil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole story shows that you are in love with that guy.. yes really true love
2007-01-31 21:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by sonali s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋