I`m heartbroken, what should i do???"Everything means nothing to me", I just don`t care about many things....I think that i`ve forgot the meaning of joy....I don`t know if i have a heart, i`m not cruel...i`m ready to listen to people, understand them etc but everything that concerns me i`m don`t care of it at all... If people hurt me i just accept it without swearing, i can`t cry... i just do anything to please others around me....for me nothing is important Please...
2007-01-31 20:20:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whoa.... slow down and take a breather...... i have been here and just starting to leave that part of my life. I am starting to care but I am doing it in small steps.
One thing i have learned is that one can not effectively please everyone and yet please themselves and have everyone pleased.
" you will on fail in that practice"
Try letting others please themselves, with what choices they make. You are not here to please others you are here to live your life not at the beckon call of those that chose to do things in which cause you to crawl.
Life is rough..... God knows there are days when i just dont want to get up and days i do not want to wake up but i, do for i choose to.
This boy though i may be older will not throw in the towel for anyone or one thing..... I hope you would not either ..... saying that i hope no one would ever find the need to or want to.....
You must keep moving forward despite what others may say or do or have done against you.
learn to forgive them and to forgive yourself. Remember cause we make a choice does not mean we have to stay with it. there is forgiveness. you must remember that but dont use it as a escape mechanism.
For not one person can take your soul or your spirit
others may say they give up on you even those that love or you love whether they be friends, family boyfreinds, girl friends husband or wives or best freinds.
Dont give up.
but only you can give up on you.... and that is what matters the most .. what you think is what matters, your opinion matters you self veiw matters your thoughts matter....
Therefore you are worth more than you think.
therefore do not give up do not walk away from yourself .. do not fail yourself...
Remember those that truly love you.... will always be there no matter what you do
Remember people are entitled to what they want to think or believe...
but in no way should it be neccessary for it to dictate what you do with your life. nor should you ever give control of you life to others by letting them make your decisions for you
for you are meant to live your own life, do not let others live your life for you by making your decisions....
we all make decisions that we do and dont like. but they are our decisions... for those that persecute us for what we do and say should shine light on what they have done and said, and they should consider the value of the words then..
in short keep you chin up roll with the puches and if you need to bite the bitter stone... well then you bite that stone and keep moving forward and learn to accept what you need to do for you to survive for no one person is innocent nor rightous to speak other wise....
other than if you have any other questions nock on my door i wont push you away.... for i will only speak the truth with you..
if anything you should be important to yourself...
2007-01-31 20:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by concrete water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 19:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by wehrly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone has really hurt you and that someone is very heartless to leave a person feeling so worthless about himself that now he doesn't care anything about himself.
You are not a worthless person at all and to believe that you are is not your fault either.
You have to seek professional help just to learn that you are a good person who really should think better of himself and not to allow others to put you down.
As a matter of fact, why don't you swear at those who hurt you? Maybe if you did once in awhile people just might stop trying to hurt you and they might see that you are not someone they can walk all over and get away with it.
Yeah, try swearing now and then and it doesn't need to be nasty either but let loose just to prove to yourself that you are alive and still kicking. And stand up for yourself by telling those who hurt you that you have feelings too and if they enjoy hurting you then they won't mind letting you do the same to them.
Be proud of yourself and take a deep breath and tell yourself that you're better then those who don't give a da*n about others and you're not about to let them hurt you any more either.
This will take you awhile to get used to doing but you have all the time in the world to turn yourself around and stop putting yourself down too. The more you do it to yourself the more others see it and will do the same to you too.
Take care and best of luck.
2007-01-31 20:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this shows the great innerself of u , caring for others and not caring for ur ownself but one musnt despair u have to carry on , u answered ur own question ur heartbroken from a person who doesnt deserve u why should u forget the meaning of joy while that person could be having fun ? why dont u cry , i think crying would relieve u back to normal and try to like urself , there is no time for sadness life is too short , just try to forget and stop hanging on memories of someone who doesnt deserve
2007-01-31 20:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by Egyptian Daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are depressed. Do you feel like the life has been sapped out of you? Is it because of a broken relationship? Turn to the creator of relationships and the author of life. PRAY. You may not believe in HIm, but He believes in you, no matter how much you think you don't deserve it. Just P.U.S.H (Pray Until Something Happens) Jesus loves you sos very much. When he hung on the cross in calvary, he was thinking about you and how much you needed life, so he died. Turn to Him, open you heart to Him and He will draw you out of your pit and show you how marvellous you are. Did you know that God says in the Bible that you are fearfully and wonderfully made? Now you know.
2007-01-31 20:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by Simply Sasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone! My heart goes out to you! Reading what you said I can tell that you have a beautiful and caring heart. This person has taken advantage of you. You are so much better off without that person! You need to distance yourself from negative people like that. They will only bring you and everyone around them down. Surround yourself with people who appreciate and respect you. Remember that you deserve to have people please you! You need put yourself first more. And also, please know that you are very important! I wish the best for you!
2007-01-31 21:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, Honey, I know just how you feel. Life can get pretty sh*tty sometimes. We have all been there at some point. I know that saying "If you want to see a rainbow you must go through the rain", might seem a lil cliche but it's so true. Just know that you are PRICELESS, IRREPLACEABLE, and so WORTH IT ALL. Look at the reponses you have gotten. You got a whole lot of love surrounding you. If you ever need to talk, email me okay? Lots and lots of Love!
2007-01-31 21:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with others try to find a reason to laugh just get over it and move on there are plenty other fish in the sea
BE HAPPY!!!!!!!!! ^_^ >.<
2007-01-31 20:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by Maria A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work out !!! get a pet !!! stay with your friends as much as possible
2007-01-31 20:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋