I`ve been hurt many times when falling in love and i don`t want to fall in love again and i`m serious about not falling in love... but when someone shows up my feelings are strong, i feel myself attracted to the person, accepts his proposal and fall in love. But i don`t want to fall in love, i really don`t want... Anybody can tell me how can this happen, i don`t want to be hurt again and the best solution i can think of is not falling in love....How can i, what can i do not to fall in love? I really mean it...Thank you for your comprehension
2007-01-31 19:57:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u cant run away from love.... its everywhere, so the best thing to do is just face it whenever u find it.... u might get hurt thats true, but u might also get to meet ur "special" someone
if u run away from it, u will be running away for ever.... its about taking chances.... u have to risk to achieve great things.... :)
so dont give up on everyone cuz' uve been hurt so many times.... ALWAYS expect a great thing to happen.... hang on to faith....
i might sound crappy to u, but i have noticed as soon as i loose faith, everything starts falling down.... but once i regain it, it all gets back to normal....
plus, not everyones alike,.... theres probably better person for u out there, and if u keep running away from love u wont get to meet that "special" one....
so, dont run away.... face it, as soon as u find ur love, u will realize what a great thing u have gained by risking ur feeling getting hurt....
Also, make sure not to get too serious.... study him/her for a while.... dont make a commitment.... since uve had experiences before try to look for any of those "signs" that will show u how the relationship is going.... BUT , dont try to "analyze" the person... it will just leave u in a mess.... just take it all cool.... and be a friend first, get to know how he/she is responding to u.....
its all about risking ur feelings and sacrificing time.....
i hope i helped u..... remember, DONT EVER LOSE HOPE
u will miss a great deal if u do so........ BEST OF LUCK, :)
2007-02-01 10:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In short u dont want to grow up,no change for u,even when u clock 10years from 2day,u still want to feel & b what u r now.
To be hurt and to learn to grow out of that pain is being mature,so start meeting new people,fall in luv with them,get hurt,hurt them if u like,then u growing cuz out of all the experince u will have,u would have learnt something.
I still belive in this thing called "LOVE"
2007-02-01 04:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Closing off your heart is simply another way of protecting yourself from pain and avoiding joy. You have to take the risk of pain to get the love that you need. Your heart knows this and there's no real way to shut it down.
Be strong, you can survive the pain.
2007-02-01 04:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 14⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem, that i don't want to but it will be better if i did because then i have someone to talk to if there is no one else. hope you find the best chose.
2007-02-01 10:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋