i convinced her to go on a proper date with me,,just this past Sun we had a great time there was no sex but alot of romance meaning alot of hand holding and kissing etc,,,prior to the date and on the date she asked me loads of questons such as what a relationship means to me etc,,,i told her trust, love, and honesty is the main things for me in a relationship,,,after the date we continued to text she said she had a reallly nice time and she would definatly want to get to know me more i told her the same,,,Monday she stopped texting like normal i figured something was wrong no she's telling me that she has to think about if she wants to be with me and that she wants a meaningfull relationship,,,i'm fed up don't know what to do why are things so complicated and what should i do??? shall i call and still text her or what??? and why do you think she is doing all this after she spoke so positively about us??? is she playing games??
2007-01-31 19:54:12 · 28 answers · asked by DMT 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont call or text her ...if she really wants to get to know u she will get in touch and if she is playing games show her that u arent , u can only do this with ur silence ....
if she wont get in touch with u , well , there are a lot of women out there !
good luck
2007-01-31 19:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she's not playing games, she's just confused. Frankly, the two of u started off wrong. A one night stand is a one night stand and is almost impossible to turn into a serious relationship. She might think u dont take her seriously or she may just be so caught up in the situation she wants to take a step back and reevaluate her decision. Give her til the weekend and then give her a call or text her. Dont rush her into a response, just make pleasant conversation. You should be able to pick up in her tone of voice, whether she wants to continue or not.
Good luck.
2007-01-31 20:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by BeautifuLL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 09:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a couple of things, but she was honest with you when she said she needed time, give her that. Don't call her, or text her and move forward with your life. If she wants a relationship or pursue something further then she will contact you. But the key is, will you be available for her at that time? Never play a game, nor do you wait to see what is best for her. You have to do what is best for you at times as well.
Good luck
Ton of hugs Mel
2007-01-31 19:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Things are so complicated because we are human...and human beings are complicated.
It may be that she quite simply does not feel ready for a relationship yet. If that is so, however hard, you will have to accept it.
But, keep open. Ask her directly if she wishes to continue seeing you. Then go from there.
I wish you well,whatever the outcome
2007-01-31 20:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by alan h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She confused coz you took off on a high note, jus tell her to holla at you when she makes up her mind, in the mean time since you like f*cking people you hardly know how bout you go on another one night stand hunt.
2007-01-31 20:21:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eternal Love gave the first decent bit of advice.
This doesn't have to be complicated. Don't contact her, let her make the next move and IF you're available, go from there.
Good Luck !
2007-01-31 20:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by Renny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is playing games mate!
I think she is feeling you out to see if your trying to get her into bed again!
Try her with phone call as 1 st option, texting as 2nd if your not happy with answer MOVE ON
2007-01-31 20:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by allwayswondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be playing games, but play it straight with her. Text her one more time, saying you understand that she needs time and space, this will be the last time I text you until you decide differently. I will be here, and but I won't wait forever. Think about the great time we had on Sunday. See you around. xxx
2007-01-31 19:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by natasha * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes playing games with you!! Get out while the going is good mate and find someone who appreciates you!! A girl who has 1 night-stands is not worth the hassle. how do you know she won't be the same with someone else next week?
2007-01-31 19:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by madmoo0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋