Children put in boarding because the father has remarried for a male baby causing family discomfort.
2007-01-31 19:53:04 · 21 answers · asked by geetha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
this one I had to answer....WHY on God green earth would you send your " wait how did you describe them " FEMALES..away just cause he ran off? why wold you punish them....Its not there fault...Hey I tell ya what sent them my way I Will love them and treat them like they needed to be treated and please don't bring any more male or female into this world....you really make me sick with this one..............God Please be with the young ladies...Give them love and comfort where they need Lord Keep them strong and please help them not to loose there spirit because the devil got them...you are stronger then her Lord...God Bless those precious girls.... and teh only one I see being discomforted is you....you lost the man not them....Grow up
2007-01-31 21:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello madam,
Its a nice thought to put your children in boarding so that they would learn many thinkgs like living independently and many more. But there are also many demerits of a boarding..Living far away from home would make ur children unhappy..In a boarding we also get into certain bad habits like smoking or drinking...cause even i am faced the consequences. So think twice if ur children are ready and agree to all of these then u can proceed,,
regards..
2007-02-01 04:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by rajiv p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that I don't understand. Is a boarding...school? It sounds to me that you are giving your children away because their father is not there to help you raise them? Why would you want to give your children away... I could understand if you needed to put them up for adoption because of something beyond your means. But really, they need you now more than ever. Don't give up on them because your husband left you three. They are your responsibility and giving them away for someone else to raise won't fix anything. If you need help hire a nanny or ask a family member. I personally would be sad if my mother gave my brother and I away because my father left. Why lose both parents...They will feel like they did something wrong. Good Luck to all of you.
2007-02-01 05:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by aprildin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not yet. Before you decide where to put your daughters, check your bank balance first. Transfer the assets of this beastly husband to your account or the joint account of you three. If it is property, get your legal share and also that of your beauties. He will not want son unless he has something to give it to him. So, get the lion's share of the property ;he will work harder for his son as he has upset the lives of three(or4) people for just one. Ask him for whatever help you may require of him, however silly it may be. Tell him to visit you now and then for his daughters' sake. With financial security, you can work wonders. Keep your daughter with you, not just because they need you but you need them as well. Don't live a life of an orphan nor give them one. With money in hand and freedom blooming, you can do anything you wish, even give him a legal son yourself. If you do not get the money now, you will make yourself a slave. First get the property or money. Second, live a life of your own that make you proud of yourself, with or without him. Finally, always be there for your daughters. Just imagine how devastated they will be if they realise why they ended in a boarding school? In my humble opinion and out of experience, boarding school is a synonym for sty or kennel.
2007-02-01 12:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by havah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are just a little jealous of the new baby but may get over it. it may take a little time but if their father is good to them, why can't they just stay with him and his new family?
but if their father is not good to them, that is another question. then maybe you can do something. but boarding school is not really as good as you think it is.......kids there may end up learning bad habits from other kids.....you do not know who they are being exposed to. i remember in school, the girls who were boarders were the wildest of them all. they came from good families but they used to smoke and drink and the nuns did not know what was going on.
2007-02-01 04:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its shocking to hear about the remarriage for a Male heir in this modern age. Ur children will also be psychologically affected so don send them away from you. be close to them and take care of them. choose a good school that's nearby. or you move close the best school nearby. wish your kids a good education and a bright future ahead.
2007-02-02 08:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by mipa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a hell of a life for these two girls! I don't think it is family discomfort I think it is yours and you want too take it out on him but you cant so you take it out on the kids. well I guess it is better than strapping them in a car and drowning them.
2007-02-01 07:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by smilley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put them in a boarding school
It allows them to be independent and experience many things in life.
Uridea of boarding school is good.But just check abt the boarding and ask the students living there abt the merits and demerits of that particular boarding
2007-02-02 08:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ultimate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes its beat leave them by the road side . I so happy you care for your kids because their father ran off with his booty call and had a male child and got marry good luck also you should go and see how you can get fix so you dont bring any more unwanted kids in this world
2007-02-01 04:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u r busy in carrier or something its OK. Pls do it only if u have no other choice. I have lived in boardings my self. They will miss the love & warmth u can give them when u r together.
Thinking of 3 child will be crime.
If it is forced , please ensure at leaset borardings r good & safe. u can visit them often.
2007-02-01 07:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by Manoj D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋