I just got out of a realationship that was bad and have gotten over it.. Im not a bad person, I dress nice, I work, I keep myself up.. I dont know why I havent ran up on the right man.. Seems like when a guy approaches me he just wants a sexual realationship.. I dont want that. Im getting old and time is running out. I work as a waitress at a casino, I see guys bringing their girls out to eat I get so mad and upset, sometimes I want to cry, because I want to do things like that. What makes it bad is that Valentines is coming up Im going to feel so left out. Do u think I'll I ever find Mr. Right..? Im 21 and havent found it yet.???
2007-01-31 19:38:03 · 9 answers · asked by VOTE THE SMART WAY! VOTE OBAMA!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have no problem with going out, pulling a guy, or getting numbers. Or making conversation with a man.. But when I do it always ends up with them talking about sex or wanting a sex buddy... I just want someone to love me not my looks, body or wants under my clothes..
2007-01-31 19:46:47 · update #1
don't worry your still young even tho sometimes it may not seem like it but you have plenty of time left to find your mr.right and he will come probably when your least expecting it. but in the mean time while you wait for him have fun you still have a long future a head of you and you might as well be young and have fun while you can. good luck :)
2007-01-31 19:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. I'm 25 and I haven't found "Ms. Right" but I know she's out there. I would just leave it in the hands of fate, and concentrate on loving yourself.
PS: I'm not sure using God as your "Mr. Sandman" will really help the situation. If it's his will, then it will happen.
2007-01-31 19:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jack S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're getting old and time is running out, and you're 21? Do you have some kind of terminal illness you didn't tell us about? Just stop worrying about it and focus on yourself for now. If the right guy comes, he comes. If not, who cares? They're just men.
2007-02-01 03:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't try so hard good things happen to people who wait when you least expect it the right man will come along and sweep you off your feet. p.s most men are young and dumb at 21 wait 3 more years.
2007-01-31 19:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by Unoptrid1aq 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You aren't getting old. I'm a 20 year old male with the same problem. Try to be more noticeable.
2007-01-31 19:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by flamemaster_lang 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give they search over to God and let him find that person for you. When God thinks your ready, he will put someone in your life for you, and not anytime sooner. Have patients and love yourself for awhile, then God will find someone to love you. God Bless and Good Luck,.
2007-01-31 19:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by 1TON 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
darling, 21 is far from old, you have lots of time, choose wisely
2007-01-31 19:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No worries youngster you will find the right one soon enough.....
2007-01-31 19:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by Da Man 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't look for him, he'll find you
2007-01-31 19:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋