there is an engagment of my cousin & bcoz of some misunderstandings b/w my sister & aunt, my sister is not going to be present there.It is hurting both of the families.
I strongly feel that wht she is doing is absolutly wrong but i can't say anything as she is not willing to listen or change her mind.
Plz sugest me any way out of it bcoz its really getting on my nerves & i want her to be there.
"Plzzz help me."
2007-01-31 18:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell her she shouldn't be reacting like that try to forgive and forget.
Once she starts following this simple rule in life she will start making her own life better.
Tell her why to unnecessarily torture yourself coz someone said something to u.
leave it yaar leave happily.
maybe if she attends the function the aunt may herself feel sorry for her behaviour and can apologise to her.
SO go ahead and njoy..........
2007-02-01 15:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEy she is your Sister.Try to think from her point of view.going to marrige may hurt is selfrespect.So don't Force on her.If she is wrong than she will realize this by herself ok ?
And If ya stull want her ther with you then you can aske her to go there for YOU.
BYe
2007-02-01 02:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by ☼ Magnus ☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is misunderstanding between your sister and aunt... then it appears to be a clash of egos... your sister being younger to your aunt should forgive and forget whatever happened between the two that resulted into this rift... i think you talk with both of them and try to bring them nearer... hope the solution would be solved...
communication breakdown for long widens gap between us... so let them talk somehow...
2007-02-01 02:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by Harish Jharia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you or someone close to her(like her friend) should speak to her inspite of her refusal.You should first listen to her complaints and then try to help her.But if reqd u must be prepared to speak with the other party and then help them to come together
2007-02-01 04:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by raunakwantstomeetu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to bring your aunt and amicablly settle the situaion once for all else it will intensify more.
2007-02-01 04:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get in to the problem between ur aunt & sis,
explain ur sis how this will hurt both the famlies.... just tell her after all her aunt has scholded her.. wht`s the big deal in it...
2007-02-01 03:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by Racingred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is being childish and seeking attention.
I say let her not go.......she's the one who will lose out in this.
Stop babying her & catering to her demands......It's time she grew up.
2007-02-01 08:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing and stay out of it...Let them fix things between themselves...
2007-02-01 03:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and ask this your friends and also try to tell ur mother
2007-02-01 02:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by jaya prakash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋