Not only that but I also don't get anymore urges to have sex. In the beginning I felt I was in love but after a while I just don't feel like being in a relationship, let alone have sex. I just have no purpose for it. It's not that I don't love my man; it’s just that I don't have those feeling for a guy period. I see a lot of hot guys but I think to myself, "I'm not interested in him." Even if it's a guy who is sweet, sincere, or even somebody who is good for me and we have a lot in common. Also, for the past two and a half years I have been continuously in different relationships. All of them weren’t that great. Also, it feels as if sex was the only thing holding it all together. Now I have a man who is great in bed and all… but I don’t have anymore feelings. It’s almost like it’s been drained. My main interest is cars from the U.K., my animation, and self improvement. What would be good advice?
2007-01-31 18:08:41 · 8 answers · asked by tika ukie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with being single and concentrating on yourself. Though I do wonder if your hormone levels are out of wack, since you don't seem to like/enjoy sex. Talk to your doctor and/or a therapist if you can.
2007-01-31 18:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by archelle32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're in a phase in your life that you feel that your priorities are focused on yourself -- self improvement etc...
maybe you need time off from having a relationship. and more alone time to yourself. i'm not saying to isolate yourself from the world but maybe having to invest emotionally and physically in relationships has drained you to give more of yourself.
my advice try to have purely plutonic relationships w/ guys, hang out with friends, focus on work and interests and clear all thoughts of sex from your head. in time you can discover what you really want in life and in a relationship.
g'luck to you
2007-02-01 02:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by klao8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you seem to still have more interests, otherwise I would question maybe you are depressed.
Maybe what you need to focus on is self now, and not worry about men or relationships. Its not all about who you are with, if you don't want to be with someone, or have sex.... simply don't.
Good LUCK!!
(oh, and are you on any medications? sometimes they can make you feel that way about sex?)
2007-02-01 02:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by joulesofaffection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are stressed out. It is possible that you are not interested in being with another person because you have been there a couple of times already. Just keep going at what you doing because it is what your heart wants to do. Follow it.
2007-02-01 02:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about it. If you can live happily without man, hats off to you. You understand the importance of female independence. You should be proud of yourself.
2007-02-01 11:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a therapist.
2007-02-01 02:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not ready for a commitment. jus be a player for awhile until u are 100% ready
2007-02-01 02:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by PD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with being single. Focus on you.
2007-02-01 02:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by MISS KNIGHT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋