Should I start looking seriously for a wife or should I just relax about the whole thing. It seems like everyone else has it all figured out by now...
2007-01-31 17:38:08 · 11 answers · asked by Kevin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you force it , it's likely you will be unhappy!
2007-01-31 17:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by Venom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Looking desperately for a wife by a certain can lead to
disaster. You don't want to settle for the first woman who says
yes just to be married. I think the key is to just be comfortable
with who you are, try to be the best person you can, learn
something new, travel to a new place you have always wanted
to visit. You never know where the right person for you will show
up. I was 33 and on a trip to Peru (my lifelong desire to see
Macchu Picchu finally was realized!) A local family I was
staying with introduced me to the man that a 1 1/2 yr. later
became my husband (going on 19 yrs now) I had a lot of
proposals between 16 and 25, but something seemed to be
missing.....so I decided to just wait, moved to a few interesting
places, took some college classes and learned some new
things, and was really happy with the person I was> Having
that confidence attracts others, being needy and whiny drives
them off. So don't worry, just take a little time to examine your
life and your goals and see where you can improve and let
life lead you to the place you need to be. Some people make
a big deal out of being married by a certain time, but I have
noticed that people that marry too young have the odds stacked
against them,. as they mature, the person they loved madly at
16 or 17 isn't the person they love at 25. So take your time .....
learn to be happy with the person you are and other people will
notice.
2007-02-01 01:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by Caiman94941 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean, do you want to have kids and a family? You'd better get on top of things unless you want to be one of those really old parents. If you don't really want a family then I would say no problem, if you have money you can find a nice girl at any age, maybe kind of wrong but true! If you don't have money either, I would say that you should start looking now just to be safe.
2007-02-01 04:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by 11bikramgirl11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop f***ing everything that comes along in a skirt and take some time to discover what a woman, any given woman, some women, women in general, are all about. That's the best way to figure out whether or not you want to commit to one woman, marry her, THEN make love to her and have children with her. Or not. Then you can go back to skirt-chasing without any worries.
2007-02-01 01:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by katbyrd41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI Kevin, I have a beautiful friend who is Male and nearly 40 and he is not married or with anyone at the moment, so don't worry about it too much, sometimes this makes things even harder, if you are looking for someone get so tips off close friends, with where you should go and how you look to others. But in general enjoy life and take it one day at time.
2007-02-01 01:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by xxmysticbutterflyxx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on looks, looks mean a lot to people these days, if ur good looking den it shud not be problrm finding a wife, proving ur decent in heart, dnt have to be all sweet, and all emotional, but know the right from the wrongs, when i say looks i mean slim tall handome, but also being 30 can be a problem, because mostr good looking women at that age eithe rmarried or got bfs and r also mothers, women love their kids more den even der hubby, well the decent ones anyway, but also finding a woman at ur age can be quite embarassing in terms of chatting girls up, going places to socialise, i mean if ur were in ur teens and youth then it aint that hard trying to find a girl and saying things because those ages u r growing up, and can say anything and use any chat up lines as u r young and naive but being in ur 30is its quite hard to say things, i mean what r u suppose to say and aks agirl out at that age lol, hey girl u ann go out with me ? u get me, its bit embarassing lol, u have to really act mature and act in a way where at ur age a girl can b intrested in u, but up tp u man lol
2007-02-01 01:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relationships can be a pain in the butt, I never been in a serious one but I know.
2007-02-01 01:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by Dathletez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah. You're a man. you shouldnt worry a bit. its ok that you're still single. Enjoy it.
2007-02-01 01:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by wallflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax!! :) God has a plan for you, and the right gal in mind, just be patient!!
Good luck and God bless! :)
2007-02-01 01:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your getting older buddy, maybe you should get one only if you want a family. Its really up to you.
2007-02-01 01:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋