HI ... I have been speaking to friend of mine since 1 and a half months now constantly over the phone. She lives in another State. She is very pretty and like an angel. The problem is that she is my Brother’s wife’s sister. I have some sort of feelings for her and I think she reciprocates very well to my phone calls and gestures. We talk around 2-3 hrs daily and even late nights (followed by early mornings also). Now I want to know whether this girl is in love with me (because I am). Tell me a way how to find this out. This would have been easy, but the problem is that the relationship is very sensitive due to family ties.
2007-01-31 17:33:30 · 14 answers · asked by Pulse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing should stand between love, if you feel you love her, even though i think it's impossible just by having phone conversations, go after her and find out if she also feels the same way!
2007-01-31 17:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Venom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is tough....you are right cuz if it ended up not working out...you would have (?) to see each other at family gatherings and stuff. But if you are willing to take the chance for love...go for it. I think love is worth the chance.
I think it could be love. But is she in love w/u? To be honest I don't think you can figure it out unless you ask her.
Maybe you could plan a get together or a trip for the two of you. During this time I think quality time together...face to face...can show a lot also! Plus I think a person can feel all lovey dovey over the phone...but the true test might be spending time together.
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Maybe you could try to talk to her and start by telling her how much your feelings for her have grown in time...you could even slip in that, "I think I am falling in love w/u." See how she responds.
Best of wish to you!
2007-02-01 01:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by tr95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think her feelings seem to be in between friendship and romantic. It's up to the both of you whether or not to take it a step further. I understand your situation, but hey atleast your not related bloodwise,lol. I mean you can't help ur feelings and if you ever really became involved you wouldn't have to worry about 2 headed babies or anything. So what are you going to do now? Boy this must be awkard for you. Good luck
2007-02-01 01:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the family ties? your brother's wife sister? If she is single why would that be a problem? It's not incest. I think she feels the same way about you. Tell her.
2007-02-01 01:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the family ties are not so sensitive it would different if it was your brother's wife. I think she likes you
2007-02-01 01:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by iseemen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man. Why not you do it this way. Instead of thinking whether she likes you, Go visit her and make her likes you. Ask her to bring you ard and develop your feelings there. And also, if you guys can talk for so long, you guys can click quite well so go for it man!!!
2007-02-01 01:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by Luffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you're saying it sounds like she is. I would ask your sister-in-law what's up if they're close. She could have some information on it. Other than that, you just have to go with it...
2007-02-01 01:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Abbey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carefull buddy! She probably likes you and is interested. But don't mistake curiosity for love man.
2007-02-01 01:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by Raven Jr. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously you should know that. She is in your family already. She is like your sister! Dude, go find somebody else. really.
2007-02-01 01:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF SHE DIDN'T LIKE YOU, SHE WOULDN'T TALK ON THE PHONE WITH YOU FOR 2-3 HOURS/DAY.
I WOULDN'T SAY LOVE UNTIL YOU MOVE PAST THE TELEPHONE... LOVE HAPPENS IN PERSON.
2007-02-01 01:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by j_mang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋