Hello,
I have been with my partner for over 5 years now we separated for 12months and got back together about 11 months ago, we have brought a house together and have been living together in it for just over one month... im not a big fan of sexual activities with my man, but he loves it. I can not stand giving oral sex it makes me vomit physically!
My man now thinks im getting it else where (which im defiantly not) how can I get more into it and prove to him im not cheating...
I really need help cos we fight all night long then I have to go and work 8 to 10 hours and then I come home to this...please help me!!!
2007-01-31 17:28:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make sex fun, most of the people especially those who are in a relationship take sex to serious.
Sex is a wonderful thing you just need to learn how to enjoy it, make that both of your mission to make make sex fun and enjoyable
There is things such as body chocolate etc that is wonderful to use.
Dont see this as a problem rather see it as a opportunity.
2007-01-31 19:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oral sex can be made less of a chore. Make sure he's clean first before you go there and tell him you don't want him to go "all the way" because you don't like the taste or smell. Use it as a form of fore play so you only have to do it for a little while. You can buy great tasting oils that you can apply first so it doesn't taste so bad and then it's kind of like a Lolly pop.
Your not enjoying sex because it's something your feeling you HAVE to do. Once you get over this it'll be a lot more enjoyable.
It is important to a relationship though and if your love your partner then you should want to be intimate with him.
Make a little effort for him so he feels valued and he'll no doubt return the favour.
2007-02-01 05:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Venessa M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about the attitude. If you don't like it - then you don't you cant necessarily make yourself like it - but if you love him and and want to make him happy then you Will have to get over the part of it being gross and try different approaches. But if it really does make you vomit physically I don't what you can do.
When I am giving oral sex - i refuse to swallow - but everything before if fine for me. If that is what is bugging you - tell him you wont swallow, and he will have to be happy with what he gets. He loves you too, so he should be willing to compromise right?
If you thinks its dirty - and that's why you thinks its gross, offer taking a shower together and clean it, and then offer oral sex - he will never know you think his penis is dirty and then you both can hopefully be happy?
If its the taste - then I would buy some flavored lube, I love that stuff. And then it taste better and its a little less work for you because you don't have to worry about getting it lubed up manually you know?
Good luck! And Have fun with sex!
2007-02-01 15:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋