Staying with my gf through the pregnancy. Shes ue in 3 months so its too late to go back but I dont really want to have the responsibility of being a dad, and shes under 18 so she could so me or somethin and I could go to jail and there goes my life but I dont like her anymore.
I mean, I thought it would just be a good f*** but...... please help me
2007-01-31 17:28:14 · 15 answers · asked by ya_face_sux 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is underage and you leave her high and dry...that is sooo WRONG. My sister went through the situation you are describing
and let me tell you it was so hard for her. My parents despised her for the longest time. You can't put her through that alone! put yourself in Her shoes... she is probably horrified, and if you leave her like that then you are nothing but a coward, that deserves to get snipped south of the boarder( if ya get what i'm sayin')! If you don't like her anymore...may be it's cuz of the hormones, wait till after she has the baby. Then you should decide. But if you're going to dump her at least be a MAN about it and be there for your child. If you just leave then imagine what any future girlfriend might think... You bet your a** they are going to think twice about it cuz they'll think "oh well what if he does the same thing again? i don't want to be that girl!" ---Next time use a Fu**ing Condom!
2007-01-31 17:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by 1.2..3...Boo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being an immature idiot. My husband and I were 15 years old when WE got pregnant with our first child. At 15 we grew up, got a job, & finished high school. My husband has been with us ever since, 7 years later. You don't have to stay with the girl but you sure in the hell need to stay with YOUR baby. It is normal to be scared or even think oh **** what did I do, but you know what, be responsible for the choice you made, which was having sex with a girl under 18 and using no protection. No child should suffer because you want to be selfish. Good luck.
2007-01-31 17:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about giving up the baby for abortion, let her understand that she is under age and not yet ready for responsibility of being a mother and that their is someone who would do anything to have a child and take good care of the child who can give the child the life that it deserves which both you cant
2007-01-31 17:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's a tough one to answer. First off, it's not too late to go back, I know I did all the research. But that's only if that's an option for BOTH of you. The other thing is child support, no dad involvment necessary, if you didn't want it. That's the best I can do for you.
2007-01-31 17:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by lizko2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh jeez... that was your fault for thinking that you could f around and there would be no consequences. Do her a favor and leave, but care for your child. You are financially and emotionally responsible for this child. I feel sorry for the unborn baby. Why do idiots like you and you gf have to get pregnant?
2007-01-31 17:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
grow up and be a man (and i mean that in the nicest way possible). it's not about whether you want the responsibility or not anymore (should have thought about that before you went for that good f*ck). put yourself in her shoes. reevaluate leaving her, if you still really want to/thinking staying together would be detrimental then leave, but that does not mean not being responsible for your baby. you don't have to be her boyfriend, but you really should be (whether you like it or not) a dad.
2007-01-31 17:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by nobu_abe87 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of he does nonetheless like her deep down. And if he's the single which mentioned the entire rebound female subject then he grew to become into needless to say questioning approximately it. i think of you're only a rebound female to him. otherwise the place did he get that? Im no longer likely to be the single to choose in case you ought to stay with him or no longer, yet ensure to observe how he acts while he's around this different chick. i think of he rather likes this different female and you ought to concentration on it.
2016-09-28 06:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by barnell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, it's not about 'her' or 'you' anymore. It's about a baby and that's what you should be thinking about. cant start faulting either but realize a tiny human needs you to love and care for him or her as best as you can and to be kind and respectful to the mother of your child. the happier and healthier she is, the better off your child is and you do want the best for your child, right? peace happy parenting
2007-01-31 17:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh geee, how much of a jerk are you. but sorry you are going to
be a daddy rather you like it or not. so grow up and be a man
but you dont have to be with her to be a father, you just need
to be honest with her and let her know that you are not inters ted
in being with her anymore, but you will have 18 years to deal
with your foolishness. but be a good father to your child and
then go from there.
2007-01-31 17:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have already taken that step. If you don't want it, you could tell her to have an abortion or something. If not, she could put the kid in adoption. But when you started to have sex with, you should already know the consequence of your action. Sorry, but sometimes you have to accept the outcome and live with it. in the end, maybe it won't be so bad.
2007-01-31 17:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋