I dont like porn i dont like watching that **** on tv im sorry i just dont....and it was like we were gonna have sex and then porn happens to pop up on the next channel and he is like look look and im like eww no i dont like porn and he keeps it there for like 5 mins and i dont look cause i just think its gross and he flops over facing the tv and leaves his back to me...i feel like what is wrong with me do i have to like porn for him to have sex with me...****....!!!
2007-01-31 17:22:30 · 9 answers · asked by I Know I Know 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds pretty selfish and very childish. He need to respect that you don't like porn. I think it is disgusting too, if he can't respect your wishes then you need to get rid of him.
2007-01-31 17:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two possible explanations:
Good: He wants you two to learn new things and be sexually open with each other, to show you, "I like what these two are doing, we should try this sometime"
Bad: He is obsessed with porn, which is potentially problematic for your relationship. People who are into porn find old things boring. They'll buy one DVD then another, then another, they want to see as many different people having sex as possible. So because of this he'll probably later ask you to do a threesome or try to cheat on you, because one is never enough and the same person gets boring with time.
The easiest way to find out is to ask him. Just tell him, "you know, I was never into porn that much, can you tell me why you like it so much? and why do you think we should watch it together?"
Unfortunately, the porn addiction scenario is much more likely judging by your words, because if he will deliberately ignore you to watch it, there's obviously something going on. Still, you should ask him and make sure he gives you a detail explanation. Then decide what you want to do next with this relationship.
2007-01-31 17:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by yishor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like the old saying ......each his on, ........if you dont porn, dont watch, but just like anything someone has to make the change, take the t.v. out of the bed room, and then try to add to the bed room what you once had, when you two first meet. get his mind off of porn and on to you. talk about what you like and what you dont like and why.
2007-01-31 17:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by trucken100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could simply tell him it doesn't turn you on because you'd rather have the real thing.
On the other hand he seems to like it, and it seems to bother you, so talk to him about it. You might try to exlain to him that all the time he spent watching it, he could have been with you. That usually solves the prob. But don't expect him to not want to watch sometimes.
2007-01-31 17:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by What_Ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men like porn..
Few women like porn..
Read some womens porn ( Erotic Romance )..
Mens & Womens brains are as different as their bodies...
Try to humor him...Tolerate it...Don't make a bit deal out of it..
It won't hurt you to watch a few minutes of it with him....
There is nothing wrong with you and he would not rather have
porn than have sex with you....
2007-01-31 17:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
nah. Just take the attitude of either I'm hot enough for you or not. You can always pull "these are real, make your choice"
sure the result might suck, but it's tons better to find out now than if he cheats on you later...
2007-01-31 17:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, he likes porn, you don't. Someone is going to have to give in this relationship.
2007-01-31 17:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by intelligent_excursionist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a selfish jerk. Been there, done that - dump him.
2007-01-31 17:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by suzanne 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
men are stupid... they want there women to be like sluts in bed but be saints by morning light..... he is immature... errr...male...
2007-01-31 17:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋