Someone close to you is very ill or injured terribly. You pray but they die.(SEE Inside 4 details)?

Question

Do you...

1. Blame God for allowing them to die? Why?
2. Know God granted them perfect healing in Heaven? Why?
3. Blame God for causing their death by creating illness or injuries? Why?
4. None of the above ... What & Why?

Peace, Light & Love,
Jewel

Answer 1

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My one true love (Katz) passed away in April of 2005 : ((

Katz was a very spiritual young lady (age 29),
and she had the kindest heart anyone could imagine.

Katz suffered through many devestating medical conditions
(severed spinal cord, spinal bone marrow transplant, ruptured aorta, kidney transplants / then machine after donor failed, 3 strokes ...... final 1 caused her death).

Katz had many friends who prayed for her recovery daily, especially during her most critical surgeries. It was very sad to see her in such pain, but she was never one to complain, or blame God for all she was going through.

I tried my best to keep faith that God would help her heal, but my faith was truly tested, since it was extremely difficult to attempt to understand God's purpose for allowing such a wonderful person to suffer so much, only to see her cut down in the prime of her life : (



But to answer your question .......

My only way to try to make any sense of her entire ordeal is in knowing that now Katz has started her glorious eternal life in Heaven.
I miss her deeply, but I try to take comfort in knowing her pain finally ended. I imagine Katz totally healthy again, hearing beautiful music (she was deaf/mute from age 5) dancing & singing, laughing and rejoicing at meeting her Lord & Saviour, along with being amoung other family & friends that passed before her.

I love you Katz <3 ....... I was truly blessed to have known you
and you meant the world to me. I miss you so much : (

But God willing, He will judge me worthy of joining you
(put in a good word for me please) so we can spend
eternity together in Heavenly paradise : )

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Answer 2

Sometimes people will pray, but not have the faith to believe that the person will really be healed. The Bible says, if we believe, anything is possible for him who believes. It also says in Mark 16:17-18 that if we believe, we will lay hands on the sick, and they will recover. Both of these promises from God include the "if you believe" part. Jesus healed people when he saw that they had the faith to believe. So don't blame God, God had nothing to do with the sickness. Sickness is from Satan. The reason why sometimes God does not heal someone, is because Satan has put unbelief in you.

Answer 3

I believe that God has given each of us a certain amount of time to spend here on earth,why this is so I don't know so I leave it to Him. It is very human to blame Him or be angry at Him because 1- losing a loved one is one of the worst things that happen to us.
2-death is so final and
3-it is a mistery to us.
It's alright to feel all this feelings,and in time as we work toward healing with His help this feelings against God go away and we really begin to accept and thrust in His words.

Answer 4

I was in this situation in November. My grandfather that raised me, was very ill and I prayed he would get better but, he didn't. He passed away the Sunday before Thanksgiving. I would say number two because, God allows things to happen for a reason. It was his time to go home and be with the two sons he had that passed away. He has a new body now where there is no suffering or pain. I will one day be reunited with him.

Answer 5

None of the above. God does not kill.It is the way of nature and God is sad with us when sad things happen to us. We tend to ignore God until we need help and then one wonders why he is not there.He is there you just dont see him.Only the kingdom of heaven is perfect,not here on earth.It is easy to blame God when things go so wrong,but ignore him when everything goes so well.We all do as we are only human.

Answer 6

Death is a part of life. God hears your prayers, but he doesn't always do everything we want Him to. That doesn't mean He doesn't care. I don't blame God for the bad choices we make in our lives. Those choices are generally what lead to our illnesses and injuries. (Not always, but usually). Likewise I don't blame God for the bad choices other people make.
I will miss terribly those who are gone. I might see them in Heaven, and I hope I do. I won't know 100% until I pass away. But the idea lightens my heart a bit.

Answer 7

Pray that they made peace with God and Jesus.
But understand that some people give up the Ghost, which mean that they wanted to die.

Answer 8

I have never had that happen to me, but I would choose #2. Even if I prayed for someone in that situation, I would pray that if it be His will that the person should go home to be in heaven, because that would be better for them, then I would accept it if that were to happen. That doesn't mean I wouldn't mourn their loss, I still would but I would not blame God for anything.

Answer 9

Hey no problem! I respect your decision to keep the details private, or if it is too painful to talk about it! This is enough info to give prayers to! And indeed, I will pray for God's healing! You all hang in there, alright? She's so lucky to have a sibling who cares enough to get prayers for her!

Answer 10

4. Would be very very sad to see them go, but i know that it must of been their time if my prayers went somewhat "unanswered". The way ic it is you don't really lose someone when they die, that person is always looking after you and being there for you.