what does it mean when everything my bf says he turn around and say he didnt mean it that way?

Question

im a very intellectual person. i have good listening and communicating skills. i understand people very well. but when it comes to my bf, he says i dont take what he says the right way, and i mean he does almost everything this way. what is really going on????. i mean what is he trying to do? or is he just that dumb. but he only does this when the conversation is about me and him.

Answer 1

He is hiding something

Answer 2

Well... hunny... um. He probably says things that he think wouldn't bother you.. but then when you mention something about it to him... he thinks you didn't like what he said so he trys to explain it in a different way. Relationships are very confusing. A lot of people have to deal with problems like this one, or a couple others I just answered like, being played by a girl/boy, or being called a lesbian/gay when you're really not. It's really hard to deal with these problems, but hunny... everyone goes through them. You just have to go to a sycyatrist or get any other advice from someone. Sometimes, you want to handle it by yourself and can't, and when you see that you can't handle it, you just give up and try to get advice or go to a sycyatrist or someone. You just can't always handle problems like these. Maybe you thought you could do it because other problems were easier to solve when you were a child or a young teenager... but it's not like that anymore. You're grown up, you're not a child or a young teenager anymore. Maybe even about to be an adult. You just need to deal with these kind of problems.

Answer 3

he may not know what he really wants sit him down talk to him make him help you understand rather he has to draw a pic or whatever it takes and go from there

Answer 4

1. misunderstanding