I have thought about him a lot over the past years, even though I was in a relationship with someone else which is now over. I still miss him after all these years so I was glad when he emailed me. It has brought up a lot of old feelings for him, apart of me has always thought of him as my soul mate. He asked what I was doing these days, where I live and how my family is doing. I replied back, answered his questions, but what I really wanted to know is if he is single after all these years, or is that not appropriate to ask this soon? Do you think him emailing me after all this time means he still has feelings for me or I am just jumping the gun??
2007-01-31 16:49:11 · 27 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He e-mailed you because something in his heart told him to. Maybe he realized that lossing you was the biggest mistake of his life, and he want's a second chance. If he e-mailed you after this long then he has also been thinking of you, dreaming of you. Hoping to be with you again. I gotta say that those old feeling began to return and the guy is probably still in love with you after all these years. give him a call, catch a movie, and talk. you never know, there are probably sparks waiting to happen. You only live once, don't have regrets. Now is your chance, so take it!
2007-01-31 17:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ralph86 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels the same way you do. Why else would he contact you. I don't think it would be inappropriate at all to ask if he's single. Just say so are you married or with any one these days? I'm sure you'll get all the answers you need after you two start emailing each other on a regular basis. Be happy and enjoy that he still has you in his thoughts. Good Luck!
2007-01-31 16:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could mean alot of things. If I were you I would just write him an email and ask him if he is single. Maybe he has been thinking of you also. Do not be too pushy with it though. But do ask him if he is single and then go from there. If he is single and you know you still have feelings for him then go for it. The only reason that I would not go for it is if we broke up in the past because he was cheating or something like that. Hey, maybe he is your soul mate! Have a nice night!
2007-01-31 16:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by someone 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he was never over you. And since you're still missing him I think the 2 of you should stay in contact for now. Why did you 2 break up? if the reason wasn't that bad maybe you could even consider trying dating again later on and see where it takes you from there. In some cases it might take years to realize that the person you neglected or left is the one who's right for you and that's the case I say just go for it.
2007-01-31 17:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by angel h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yikes, I am in the same boat as you! Go ahead and ask, you were once together and his contacting means he has still thought about you over the years. It can be a good thing or one that just needs closure. I really can't say other then be yourself and ask, it can't hurt to know. If he answers back and is open to you, restart your friendship but don't give too much of your inner feelings away until you see him in person. Sometimes we think of people after many years and just wonder how they are getting along in life and it is just an update. Wish you the best! :-)
2007-01-31 16:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by cariebear197 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be jumping the gun some. He may have just come across your email addy and just thought "hey I have not talked to her in a long time wonder whats up" and just thought to email you.
I would not read all that much into it if I was you. And not ask any Qs that might end up making you look silly.
2007-01-31 16:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by Suzanne C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has feelings for you; what those feelings are I am not sure, but the fact that he emails you out of the blue means he is thinking about you. My guess is he is not in a relationship, tired of some of the bad ones he's had and thinking about the one that got away (you).
Hope this helps, but you want my advice, tell him you miss him and you think/worry about him sometimes. Then let him take it from there.
2007-01-31 16:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 07:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea ... my ex still does that from time to time too and he is the one that left it up to me to end it or wait around for his lazy a s s ... It makes no sesne. Go ahead and ask, treat it like a catch up thing and if he is single and you want to try it again go for it! I really don't know if it means he still cares, he could just be checking back on a part of his life or he could care. The only way to find out is to ask him! Good luck!
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