i am limited to sex 1 time a week i want it so much more we been in our relationship for 4 months and been friends for 7 years. i am 24 she is 25 i need sex more than once a week but she is not hearing it there;s always an excuse. how many guys would leave a girl you love because of this i don't wanna find it elsewhere
2007-01-31 16:38:21 · 9 answers · asked by lizandmike2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude...
We all want sex more than once a week. Most guys probably want it at least once a day. The fact is - if you really love her - that shouldnt matter.
She might be limiting you to 1 time a week so that your relationship doesn't turn into something all about sex and the physical aspects. Try taking her out and doing things with her. My guess is, if she feels like shes getting the emotional parts she craves... more sex will follow.
Good Luck
2007-01-31 16:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by SlickNick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that if your girlfriend is always giving you excuses, but she is still having sex with you one time a week, then I would consider yourself lucky. Having been in a relationship where I was married to a woman and we did not have sex for almost 8 months, I would say that you are very lucky!!!! If you are wondering, I ended that relationship back in 2002 and I am married now to a wonderful woman who loves sex. Sometimes we go about a week without it, but when we do, it is great!!! Usually when we go that long without sex, we are usually too busy or it is that time of the month. All I can say is this; if sex is more important to you then the woman you are with, then I would say get out as soon as possible. If you really love (LOVE) this women, the having sex with her only once a week is better then nothing... Remember, sex isn't everything!!!!! That is my opinion.
2007-02-01 00:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by William N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u need to either suck it up and deal with it or leave. maybe she feels that sex is all you want from her and she is trying to make you realize it. either that or she is just a *****. but if its that. then what you do is show her that its not just sex you want from her and show her you want her for who she is. if that fails and the mesage doesnt get through and things dont change and you get miserable. life is to shor to be miserable. and leave. and when she asks why tell her the theary and tell her it didnt change things so aparently that means your just a cold heated ***** and im out of here.
i had a friend who was married. his woman was like that. they eventyually split up. we got into it cause i was more her friend then his. i knew her way before i knew him. i thought he was being an *** and thats why she cut him off. and his excuse of she doesnt like sex was bullshit and we all knew it. as soon as she was free of him she was back to screwing like a rabit. so maybe you did something i dont know. step back take a good long hard look. and figure it out. maybe shes the problem maybe not. do what you can to fix it. if u cant move on with your life
2007-02-01 00:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't find it some where else...
You are craving cause you like it and or are fascinated by how she works with you in the heat of the moment or most likely a mix of both, keep your cravings down and in the time where your together let it all out take that time and be with her o one else let her know what you really feel and how you really true love her.. things could change when you savor the moment and let it last instead f just craving it..
~Quin.
2007-02-01 00:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by Quin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I'd try to leave. I'd probably just grin and bear it or try to get her in the mood. Romantic dinners, gifts, a lot of alone time, that sort of thing. If she still says no, I'd want her to explain to me why, and then tell her how I feel. Then make my decision after that.
2007-02-01 00:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im the same i need sex every day.. but ive been lucky withpast gf, that i always get it when i want... and they also enjoy it with me... well if you dont want it from else where.. then you must tell her how you feel.... if not i think you must consult mrs palmer and her five daughters (your hand)
2007-02-01 00:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so she only gives it up once a week. what keeps you from running up in the bathroom, slapp'in on a little lotion and getting the job done the rest of the week?
2007-02-01 00:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its just excuses.... and its that important... it has become a compatibility issue.
This comes from a married dude who's happy to get it once a week, so don't listen to me....
2007-02-01 00:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by going_crazy_30m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her, marry her, than sex will be so much better and more often
2007-02-01 00:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by bratt58 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋