This girl that used to like me started acted really wierdly towards me for no reason. We used to go to lunches all the time, she always used to touch me, and play with my things, went on few movies, and also laughed heaps around me. I started to like her not soon after, and then realised she was annoyed for something i dont even know what?. One thing i did note, was she always used to ask me to go lunches etc...i never really asked her once. 2 months have past, we met up, and she is like the person i used to kow, but after meeting up, she hardly ever talks properly to me, or doesnt respond to my emails etc....like shes playing games. Should i stop wasting my time and let her start talking to me properly, at the moment shes making me do all the effort. If she really likes me she'll come right true?and why do you girls get like this,?.....ive asked in the past if shes ok, and shes always saying "yes" ...and "why", etc....andthen i just drop it
should i stop trying to make an effort, an
2007-01-31 16:33:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's playing games with you.....could be possible that's she really does like you, and once she figured out you like her back the same way she got scared so now she's retreating.....it's difficult to say ......My advice to you is keep on being her friend, but tone it down a few levels....don't constantly be making all the moves, once she realizes you're not there so much she'll either step up to the plate and act like a proper friend, or you'll see the distance grow between you and that should answer your questions
2007-01-31 16:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know i would act distant if all the effort was from my side, &i felt that it was rejected in someway. Or if i thought to move on..
U have alot to do before she believes u have given her her fair share of attention. Giving up now will just be proving a personal point she has in her head.
Carry on-soon she'll drop her gaurd again for u &start giving again.
2007-02-01 00:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well first of all, since I've been in that situation with my guy friend, the way you went wrong is that you never asked her to hang out and stuff. yes its a little old fashioned, but girls like being asked out, they dont always like asking. So instead of trying to communicate through emails and stuff, talk to her, face to face, and confront her with the problem. and dont get a stupid answer from her, tell her to be one hundred percent honest and dont take anything offesively just do what most guys wouldnt, actually listen to her.
2007-02-01 01:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by Diana_Is_Amazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could either have gotten over or tired of waiting for you to ask hr out. yeah, girls do get tired of waiting around and eventually move on. maybe she was only that way with you to give you the idea of you to ask her out, but since you never did, she got over you.
tell her directly what you feel and why she started acting differently with you. more then likely a girl will tell you the reason.
2007-02-01 00:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she likes to pursue. If you give in to her, she has no challenge. You need to play hard to get if you want her to stay interested. Act like she's acting (ignoring you, not responding to emails). Basically, she has you hooked right now. Get off the hook and start swimming again!!
2007-02-01 00:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by intelligent_excursionist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry bro. but I hate to say in my opinion shes not interested in you anymore. If she wants to play games forget her. Life goes on. You should find someone else. Good Luck
2007-02-01 00:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she got tired of waiting for you and moved on! Not tryimg to be rued but i;ve been there and it hurts! You'll need to find a special way to talk to her and tell her how you feel!
Lizzie
2007-02-01 00:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzie(hannah) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion.....
just say something along the following lines.
Things don't seem the same between the two of us as they used to. Is there something wrong?
Maybe she is seeing someone else and doesn't know how to tell you.
2007-02-01 00:41:35 · answer #8 · answered by COOKIE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT MIGHT BECAUSE SHE FOUND SOMEONE ELSE TO DO THOSE THINGS WITH WE AS WOMEN TRY TO SUBSTITUTE
WHEN ARE MAN OR FRIENDS ARE ACTING CRAZY OR WHEN WE HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO SO WE USE THE GOOD MEN IN BETWEEN TIMES BUT YOU'LL FIND
SOMEONE JUST CONTINUE TO BE THE GOOD GUY
2007-02-01 00:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by FALYN H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah drop it. not worth the migrane your giving yourself. u might as well just move on. find someone you can conect with that doesnt play games. is she wants games send her back to highschool. perfact place for it. welcome to the real world man. find your self a woman. not a little kid
2007-02-01 00:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋