I am a senior in high school, and i have currently found a freshman girl that i am sttracted to, and i know she is attracted to me, but i am worried if i persue her, she might not be able to handle the maturity i need in a girl, and also be able to meet my needs if ya know what i mean. I was wondering if she is aware of these things, and aware of our age n experience difference... what would u do. or think
2007-01-31
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She is probably not thinking about that realistically. But I have to say, honestly, you're really not THAT much older or more mature. Don't consider going out with her if you think that she will have to change to please you. That will only cause resentment between you down the road. If you think she's too young and immature for you, leave her alone. Instead of wondering if a certain person you're attracted to can please you, go out with her a few times casually and try to figure out what pleases her and whether or not you have that potential.
2007-01-31 16:42:46
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answered by Laura Renee 6
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there is a big chance that she is as mature or more than you are. the differences its that you've basically lived the whole high school experience and she's just beginning it. and that can be missinterpreted as not being mature enough. if you really like her give it a shot. you never know, it might end up being one of the best relationships you ever had. and dont worry so much about your "needs" part. it shouldnt be the main thing on your mind when you are trying to find a girlfriend. after all in this messed up world that we live in, you dont really need a girlfriend to get some.
take it from an 18 year old girl. if that means anything lol
2007-01-31 16:35:49
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answered by ♥ 4
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It is better if you are still at school not to go for a girls that is two years younger than you rather go for someone that is a year younger or the same age
It is only when you are finished with school that age doesnt matter any more because then you are both mature and know what you want out of a relationship and out of life.
2007-01-31 16:32:54
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answered by SAgirl 5
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well how the hell do you suppose she'd be aware of your personal needs in a relationship??? Is this girl psychic....?
You're only hope is to be as open about what you're looking for as you can...don't bother with someone younger if you need maturity.....rrrrrrrrrrright.........maybe you should just leave her alone, she's doesn't need the added pressure of living up to your needs if ya know what I mean....
2007-01-31 16:34:27
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answered by Anonymous
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She's too young dude. Move on to college women. They're plenty mature. Plus if you're 18, it would be illegal for her to "meet" your needs.
By the way, why are you asking girls what they would think and do? Don't you want to know what YOU should do?
2007-01-31 16:31:04
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answered by intelligent_excursionist 2
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Hey, why don't you just start with a casual relationship and see if she is mature?
2007-01-31 18:05:40
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answered by KB 4
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First of all, I think you need to repeat middle school again. Learn how to spell or use spell check and learn grammar. Girls should be the last thing on your mind.
2007-01-31 16:32:39
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answered by majstevenfusmc 1
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2016-10-16 09:45:09
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answered by Anonymous
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I would tell you to look back at what you wrote in your question. You're already having uncertainties about the whole thing. So scrap it.
2007-01-31 16:37:16
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answered by lizko2 3
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when you turn 18, she will be a minor. that is gross dude. if you were mature you wouldn't be persuing her.
2007-01-31 16:31:21
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answered by Peachie 3
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